I've been dating this man off and on for two years. I know he'll never be what I need but I just can't get over him.
2006-09-04 18:24:54 · 22 answers · asked by cocoacure83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep busy, make new friends, try new things, volunteer your time ( you might meet someone or someone may have a brother, cousin) meanwhile you are doing something good for someone else and building up your self esteem, and don't look back. most times things don't work out for a reason.
it gets easier as time goes by
2006-09-04 18:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! No need to waste your time for something that will never be the right thing for you. Go for what you want! Stay single for a while - don't jump on the first guy in sight, just to forget your boyfriend. Work, take up dancing lessons, go to a drawing class, meet new people, go out with your friends, do what you have always wanted to do! Once you are aware of what you want in life, it will magically appear in front of you! Let go of this man and fight for your happiness. It's not so easy, but it's worth it! Good luck!!!
2006-09-05 01:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just got out of a 4 year relationship with 2 kids. It is hard. But if you are not happy then you need to leave now. Before you end up like I did with kids and that makes it harder. What I am doing is I am occupying my time with other things. I now hang out with different people. I have cut myself off from him. We only talk long enough for our kids.
2006-09-05 01:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sexymccay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully time will heal. You know he isn't what you want so that means Mr. Right is out there. It's just has to be the right time and right place for the 2 of you to meet. In the meantime, hang in there and spend time with your friends. And by all means, get out there and get seen!!!
2006-09-05 01:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a lot of fun organizations and just do all the stuff you used to do before him. I know it wont be easy but once your happy again there is no other feeling of truer confidence
2006-09-05 01:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by underlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over someone takes alot of time and patience!
2006-09-05 01:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating lots of other guys
2006-09-05 01:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cormac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, have a good time with a good friend or a Hott crush. Try not to get wasted, it can make things worse if you are not careful!!
2006-09-05 01:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends, try to have some fun, or listen to some music.
2006-09-05 01:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by LA S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give some attention to yourself, discover new potentials in yourself, learn something new.. be busy doing some achievements!
2006-09-05 01:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋