Help me out please? im lost...?
yea so heres how it is... every summer i go to visit my cousin. this year i hooked up with her best friend. sure the sexual part of it was great...
but i had a really awesome time with her.. we chilled, and went to the movies and i really enjoyed spending time with her. now the problem is that my cousin lives 12 hours away. i only go visit my cousin for two weeks out of the year. i know this sounds really lame or whatever, and ill prolly get called a p*ssy for sayin this, and poeple will prolly make fun of me cuz im only 16 saying "i dont know what love is" but im havin a really hard time not being with her. we talk all the time on the phone, but i had such an amzing time with her, i cant stand not being with her... WTF do i do?
2006-09-04 18:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by togaparty456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suck it up baby!! .. nah I am playing :) Thats really sweet of you. Love doesn't come at any certain age. There are people who are in their late 20's and earlier 30's who aren't in love. When you are in love you will know it. Weather or not you are now is not for me to say or anyone else to pass judgement..... if its something that means something to you go see her as often as you can even if it is just 2 weeks out of the year. Talk to her as much as you can. When you are old enough and she is old enough as well ... maybe something will become of it. Don't get too stuck on a relationship being that far away because its really hard. You are young. Alot of other girls will probably come your way. Listen to your heart.
2006-09-04 18:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there isn't much you can do until you are of age to be on your own .. until then keep up communicating with her, letters, emails, yahoo im - maybe create a blog for the both of you .. talk about what happen during the day, include poems and love letters. When you are able to see her, make the best of it..
Good luck in the relationship
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 01:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was totally in love at age 16 also and my parents moved me to California. It took me two years to get over him. My point being is that love at age 16 is powerful. So powerful that it took me two years before I felt love again.
What do you do? You write emails and enjoy seeing her a couple times a year. Be open to the fact that another girl might attract you and your heart will love again. It is really hard to love someone so far away. You have been privledged to of loved.
2006-09-05 01:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be infactuation.
if it is love and not lust,
try to motivate urself into your studies / work.
after 6 or 7 yrs, if u both still have feelings for each other, then it is tru love.
it may be difficult for you and may be for her also. but this is the way u can help yourselves.
by then you must develop urself to a better person, able to handle situations.
2006-09-05 01:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by kummu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if maybe it can be arranged for her to come see you, long distance relationships suck, i know i was in one and just moved 3 months to be with my boyfriend and we were only 2 hours apart. if its meant to be then things will work out - best of luck
2006-09-05 01:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋