2006-09-04 18:11:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2006-09-04 18:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor guy alone. Get over these feelings which I'm sure you will if you show a little determination. Go out and date, it'll be hard but it'll get easier, make more friends, keep yourself busy, throw yourself in your work but don't confess your feelings to him. You want him to say "Wow! I'm in love with you too, hold on a minute I'll just leave my pregnant wife and we can run away to Brazil!" but that's only in your fantasy. In reality, he's going through a very intimate time with his wife because she's having their baby and the last thing he needs is an old flame turning up to declare her love. How do you think that will make him feel? You'll just embarrass yourself and isolate yourself from contact again. Don't do this. Just calm down and you'll get over it.
2006-09-05 01:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your in a tough spot. But unortunately so am I.You see, I still love my ex-wife of 20 years and always will...even after being divorced for 7years. She is happily remarried and I am honestly glad for her.
My suggestion, don't tell him, it wouldn't change anything. Move on with your life and let him move on with his. Me, on the upside I have had the chance to take assignments over seas (Iraq, Kuwait, Bahrain, England) that I never would have if I were still married.
Hang in there, it will get easier.
2006-09-05 01:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by iraq51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. if he is already your ex there is a reason. Otherwise, you will be in his, his wifes, and childs life for now and his wife isnt going too far bc of the baby. And if you work it out for a little while and then they end up back togehter then you will be in the same position as u are now. It has to work on both sides, I would stay away from that situation, sounds like it could get very nasty!
2006-09-05 01:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on and get over him. After all he is married and with a kid on the way. I still feel love for my ex after a very long time but, he has moved on and I also had to.
2006-09-05 01:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hot Chocolate I know it is rough keeping your feelings bottled up for this man but you should let go for now. He is married now and expecting a child. Go out and have fun. Date and meet new people. Life is too short to stop your life for someone who obviously has moved forward with his life. Just like he is happy now, you can be too with someone else. It easier said than done, but if you were still with him you would want his ex to respect that he is with you. I feel your pain because it happened to me but in time I have moved on. If he breaks up with his wife in the future and you still have feelings for him, tell him and see where it goes.
2006-09-05 01:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there ...I know how you feel ..
The best thing to do is move on , you guys broke up for a reason and now he's happy and gonna have a baby , you need to understand that , it's going to take some time but you'll be fine ...
Keep your options open and you will fine a man that will be right for you ....
Best of luck to you =)
2006-09-05 01:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you two split for a reason, he is married now and expecting a kid, let him move on and you find someone that you can be equally happy with, even if you tell him how you feel, it probably wouldnt make a difference, you could loose him as a friend so id keep quiet
2006-09-05 01:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love gives birth to sexual relationship.
U bad girl!!!!
Let him live his married life peacefully.....
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But Wait!!!
Yes!!!
U can love & have sex with him any time...
& he will also go for that...
As Men & Women other than MUSLIMS just can't stop from doing sins...
Its ok for u if u r a non-MUSLIM.....
Its ok for NON MUSLIMS to have sex with any person/OR ANIMAL/ OR any THING they feel attractive....
Because they don't have self-esteem & sense of what they are doing is right or wrong or they have no sense for self purity or modesty...
Disgusting People!!!
I am happy for that I am a MUSLIM and don't have an eye on others' life partners or even any other girl...
I know I am PURE....
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In MUSLIMS there is a very comon saying which says....
"Keep your eyes look on ground so that your Mother, your Sister, your Daughter, your Wife etc.,(your females) remain safe from bad intentionded eyes of other men."
Meaning, If all men keep their eyes look lower, they can't/won't see any women with bad intentions....
And ofcorce, he won't fall by hitting any thing on road/his path etc...
Isn't that true???
Please Don't ruin your ex-lover's married life...!!!
2006-09-05 01:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, get out and get heavily involved in another hobby, like volunteering to feed orphans or something, that will totally take your mind off him. Or salsa dancing, or electrical engineering classes, or whatever floats your boat and will get you to meet new people. Telling him's not fair to him, his wife, his kid, or to you. You may never completely get over him, just like people may never completely get over the deaths of someone they love, but you can learn to deal. (And you'll probably get over him-- one day you'll wake up and realize you haven't thought of him for a whole week!). Good luck!
2006-09-05 01:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, drop it, he is married. you had your chance. dont ruin another kids life by your mistakes. dont hope, just move on. There are another billion fish in the sea. your a witch if you dont move on. Listen to dr. Laura on am radio, google her, and you''ll get the best advice of your life on how to grow up and be the best you can be.
2006-09-05 01:14:16 · answer #11 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋