I'm depressed & sick of the pain & pressures of life. No one accepts me-not even my family. People treat me like I have no right to live, so I will give them their wish by killing myself.
2006-09-04 18:09:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Killing yourself doesn't reslove anything. There has to be a reason that you've held on for this long. Although your family may treat you like **** they'll regret it and miss you after you've made that big mistake. It's just stress don't let it get to your head. You can try calling the suicide hotline toll free, 24/7. Why call a suicide hotline? How can i possibly help? Can they really help you over the phone? Sometimes it's hard to admit...
that we need other people.
Sometimes depression & suicidal thoughts contain a component of upset & anger towards the world & the people in it.
But the truth is, nothing can really substitute for human contact - we do need people.
The truth is, just talking to someone, explaining, sharing, venting, being listened to, can often give us a temporary reprieve.
Talking to someone can temporarily change your perspective - Human contact changes the brain chemistry & opens that emotion "pod" of pent up emotions for temporary relief - and it may not be what they say, but just the exchange of emotions like empathy, compassion, & concern.
Will they cure us - no.
Will they take the pain away ?
Maybe ease it for a little while.
Even if you know you may be upset or suicidal again soon, just give it a try.
Even though non-depressive humans won't really know exactly how you feel --
Let them try to help the best they can.
Talk to them, let them listen.
Most of them are not even getting paid.
The only reason they are there is for you.
They may not always say the exact right thing, but they are hoping that somehow they can help you make it through a difficult night, to live & fight another day.
It doesn't have to be a
one time only call.
Although it is often the last resort for many, you don't have to be embarrassed to call & it doesn't have to be a big dramatic event
If you know you are in trouble or if you really don't know what is wrong -- whether you think it will help you or not, just call anyway.
You may not know how it helped until after you are well, your depression is treated and you look back and see that it really did make a difference.
It probably won't be just one thing that gets you through this terrible time in your life - It will be lots of little things that really don't seem like help at all.
The one time I called a suicide hotline was after I took something to kill myself. I don't know why I even called. It was my second attempt & I was determined to kill myself. But my doctor had given me the number so I called it. I wasn't even upset - I just told the gal that I had taken something to kill myself. She said I should go in and wake my Dad and tell him - if not they would send an ambulance.
Without the Doctor's "will" - his directive to call the number, and the counselor's "will" or influence, I feel sure that I would have just laid down & waited to die like I had done the first time I tried.
(However, just as in my previous attempts, the stuff I took would not have killed me anyway, but I would have wondered about damage to my body or brain, making my plight worse than ever.)
Poem
For a few moments, let someone help carry your pain
Someone who is there because they care enough to help a stranger in need
Because they know, or they have seen,
From someone they know, or somewhere they've been
That your life may be in danger and there's nothing they can say,
To really make that pain go away.
But they are there for you even so,
Because somehow they know,
That somehow, some way,
They can help you find the strength
to live another day...
Call 1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433
Call 1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255
2006-09-04 18:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Your family is not the whole world. Suicide will not bring any benefit to you. You will gain nothing. Face the world bravely. Think positive. Try to achieve something. Achieve little victories. Cheer up yourself. Do not lose hope. Some day you will find that life is beautiful and precious. Love life. Pain & pressures, pleasures & happiness are two sides of life. Be in the company of cheerful people. Make good friends. Read good books. Talk to friends. It will reduce the tension. Look at the positive side of everything and your depression will melt away. Do not panic. Do not rush to the decision.
A day will come when you will realise what a great mistake you were going to do.
You can write to me if you feel like.
Best of luck !
2006-09-04 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by KANGO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please do not resort to suicide. Nothing can be THAT bad where life is not worth living even though it may feel like it. God made you and He loves you dearly. Your life is precious to Him and it's only his duty to give and take away life. Please, it's His plan for you to live, He has a life-plan for you and now is not your time! You are a beautiful person and there are people who DO love you accept you, even if you don't believe it. Be strong and realize that tomorrow is another day, a brighter day. Though sorrows may last through the night, joy cometh in the morning is a good Bible verse to remember. Suicide will only bring pain to those you love and it won't solve anything. Your life is precious, just stay strong and think of all the good things that are happening in your life right now and be thankful for those. God bless you!! :)
2006-09-04 18:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own problems in life, almost everyone feels like committing suicide at one time or another in their life.
Suicide stems from a state of mind.
Change your life, your circle of friends, go to church, get a job, and go to the doctor so he can either change or up your medication.
You have told us all that you are on antidepressants and evidently the ones you are on have either stopped working or need adjusted.
Suicide is the easy way out. The chicken **** way out.
Fight for your self and for your life.
There is not anyone on the internet that can help you. You need to do this yourself and with the help of a certified counselor and doctor.
You have also stated to us all that you have no job and have no money or food. But this is also a state of mind. Get out there and get a job....Any job, work fast food, clean toilets, do what you have to do in order to make money for food and shelter.
If you would just go out there and get ANY kind of job that will make you feel better. It will get you the money need to survive and it will make you feel better about yourself. Your sitting around the house, not doing anything and that would depress anyone.
Only YOU can change your life.
2006-09-05 00:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hell you will. Is there a reason people won't except you? Do you walk around in diapers and pick your nose? Well get rid of the diapers and keep your finger out of your nose.Or do it in private
What is treating you like you have no right to live? Do these people throw eggs at you or put vasoline on your tooth brush? Hide your tooth brush and wear a poncho.
And who is wishing you were dead? Did they actually say "I wish you were dead"? Well my dear, tell them to wish in one hand and chit in the other and see which one gets filled first.
The bottom line is that theres always a way around whatever it is thats bothering you. Nothing and I mean nothing in this world is worth killing yourself for.
Sowhat if everybody wished you were dead. Wouldn't you get more satisfaction staying alive just because you know it bothers them? Once you're gone it doesn't take long before people just sorta forget about you. While their life goes on. Think about it..
2006-09-04 18:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AURUM MET 30C its a Homeopathic Remedy Cures Suicidal Depression as if by Magic.I have never seen it fail in curing depression especially when the patient is feeling suicidal take it thrice a day half hour before meals till you get over your depression. And it wont give you any side effects or complications just 100% relief and an immense feeling of well being and happiness.
Take Care and God Bless you !
2006-09-04 19:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know something? Everything could change in an instance. Hope is the greatest gift known to mankind. Will there be anybody that will miss you? Will you have any regrets? Do you really want to leave? Answer that. If you said yes, I can't stop you but I want you to know that even though things are bad for you, it will change. Depression is a part of life.
Oh right, your question. You feel like that because your life has been horrid and you feel that there is nothing left for you to live for, but you already know that. But do you really?
2006-09-04 18:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our problems. Suicide is not the answer. Life is to short. God does not make mistakes people do. Give your pain to Jesus. There are many People who love you and care for you. You are a child of God. He doesn't like seeing like this. Just ask Jesus into your heart and say that you are a sinner. Tell him you are sorry for your sins and that you want him to come into your heart. When you do this the old person you were has passed away. Behold the new creature. Go to your nearest Calvary Chapel in the morning and someone will be there to help you and support you. God bless you. Be strong.
2006-09-04 18:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, you have plenty of people who love you, your family loves and accepts you its just that they dont express it. You should never contemplate suicide, its a horrible thing. Everyone goes through the pains and pressures of life. Don't take the easy way out, life will not always be easy but it is definately worth living.
2006-09-04 18:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend
these kind of situations are a part of life. Almost everybody in his or her life time must have thought about killing themselves atleast once but does that solve anything? Life is a beautiful gift and you are far more lucky than people in Africa who dont even know what a computer is and see you can ask any question and tell your problems but those people dont have even the basic necessities of life.
So I guess you are too lucky to die and a precious part of your world. Go in front of the mirror and say to yourself " I LOVE YOU".
2006-09-04 18:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋