when I love some girls, I expressed my love to them and if I got denied I still chasing after the until they give in. But then I dun luv them anymore. I kinda love them until they love me back I dun love them anymore. am i too weird because I am not like a player or anything. or maybe i need some good advice here
thank you
2006-09-04 18:09:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't love the girl...you love the chase...
2006-09-04 18:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never understood this behavior. You like the thrill of the chase and in the long run the chase doesn't love, care, and grow old with you. You end up lonely and unsatisfied and finally not even knowing yourself inside.
You appear to be addressing the problem - now it is time to look inside - no one can answer this question but you. Of course, talking and asking advice is good. Rejection sounds like the core. You conquer the reject-or but then end it because you fear rejection again and the cycle never ends
2006-09-05 01:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by mariee64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're behaving is because you're not in love with these girls. They're just infatuations/conquests for you and when they respond, you lose interest because you're interested in the love...you're interested in the chasing thrill. I suggest you differentiate between love and chasing girls because I think you're doing the latter but confusing it with the former. And don't play with people's feelings like that.
2006-09-05 01:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like one of your parents left at an early age. Maybe the other partner had bad relationships and lots of them. Seek a psych, just 1-2 visits will do if your honest.
2006-09-05 01:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you use the love word like its candy for one...and two you dont love the girls you love chasing them...and once they respond the chase is done therefore you dont "love" them anymore....talk to a counselor or something because it isnt that great to mess with peoples feelings like that.
2006-09-05 01:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you like the challenge of the chase but the NOT the prize. NOT COOL!!!
Are you afraid of commitment???
Want advice??? How about trying to find out why you do this... Think about it, I'm sure deep down you know why....
2006-09-05 01:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're more into the chase then the reward. once you get the girl she becomes meaningless. is it weird? perhaps, but if it is, there are many people who are just like you.
2006-09-05 01:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by the mystic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird. Your feelings don't last because you have not met the right girl yet. Don't give up!
2006-09-05 01:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like you, then back off.
2006-09-05 01:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe,only you know.
2006-09-05 01:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋