I want to start dating again but I don't just want to settle for the first guy I date. So if a guy ask having you been dating and seeing anyone should I say no. Because I have notice in the past it scares off a guy if I say yes I'm going out on dates. Do guys really want the truth?
2006-09-04 18:04:46 · 20 answers · asked by tannya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems most men are threaten about women that sees a lot of men. Do guys think that we sleep and kiss all the mens I meet. If I do say yes couple of days ago they want to know all the detail and if I think it is none of their business they think I have something to hide. Do men tell us everything that goes on in their last date? Do men just want to hear no I haven't recently but I like you.
2006-09-04 18:14:13 · update #1
Just be honest about it .. if you want to be dating around make sure you are up front about it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 18:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man wants honesty. Yes, you should be honest when a guy ask you...if he get's weirded out by that or whatever then he's obviously not even worth your time. The reason why the guys your dating wants to hear that you have been dating is because, dating to guys means your having sex. Dating to women just means guys that you have dated a couple of times but had no sex with. So, basically they r trying to see how much sexual activity you have going on and then they base their decision from that. Don't become a liar,construct yourself, customize your self for no man!! And I mean no man! Just keep it real, and you will get a real man...keep it fake and you will keep getting the bull***t guys!
2006-09-05 01:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy would like your honest if you tell them that your not in serious relationship and looking around.
I think most guys are afraid because dating around usually gives out the wrong vibes. But if you just going out with close guy friends then that should not be considered dating.
It hard to say what a guys reaction is, some guys are the jealous type, cautious type.
As long as you tell him upfront they should be all bent out of shape. It alot better than getting caught with another guy.....at least your are being honest.
So to answer you question that all depends on the guy. I think in most cases you have to go with your gut feeling. To tell or not to tell....that is the burning question?
2006-09-05 01:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth because sooner or later he'll find out. I know 80% of male speceis wouldn't tell the truth but why should we females do the same..It would just bugged our conscience.
Some guys were scared of competition because they think they wouldn't win and would only got hurt in the process but those who feels threathened to risk it only shows that they were not man enough. Would you settle for the second best? it's upto you...
And if you felt that you already like the one youre currently dating why date someone else... it will only makes things complicated, and in so doing you might end up losing someone you've liked..
2006-09-05 02:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always better to tell the truth. Its hard to keep track of lies. So when a guy asks you if you've been dating...say yeah, I've been dating on and off but there's nothing serious. That way you're being truthful and honest, but you're not scaring him off. Anyway, if he is scared off...then he's an idiot and you've done yourself a favour by not wasting any more time with him.
2006-09-05 01:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may scare guys off but you should always tell the truth because you don't want to not tell the person because they might run into you and the other person that you are seeing. I seen it happen too many times or you don't want anyone to develop deep feelings for you and when you don't give them what they want, they can't say that you were leading them on.
2006-09-05 01:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to settle for the first guy who asks you out. I do think you should be honest and tell him you've been dating in a casual way. You have many friends that you run around with, but no steady one. Honesty is always the best policy, I think.
2006-09-05 01:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what a guy wants. Do YOU want to start out a potential relationship with the first words you uttered being a lie? I don't think you do. Be honest because you want to be. Let the chips fall where they may. Worry less about analyzing how your response will be received by them and more about whether or not you see anything in them that would make you want to get to know them better.
2006-09-05 01:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say the truth ..There's no need to lie
If they ask just tell them the truth why you haven't been dating ..
If they like you they shouldn't even care what your reason is ..
Best of luck to you =)
2006-09-05 01:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him. If you aren't , you could hurt him really bad, and then you are gonna feel crappy about breaking his heart. I been in that situation, and I that was 1 of the most hurtful moments in my life. You have to remember he is a person too, and his heart can break like anyone elses.
2006-09-05 01:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋