2006-09-04 17:43:58 · 26 answers · asked by Beta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not now but when i was MUCH younger i did. I think i did it because i was selfish and life was all about me. When another man (not anyone but one i really liked) showed me a lot of attention and claimed that he was in love with me, could treat me better etc. i enjoyed the attention and so even though i thought i loved my boyfriend, it was like a drug to be told how wonderful i was and how much i was wanted.
Then i grew up and realized that when you really do fall in love, its about giving and not receiving. When you love another and give yourself completely, you get good in return.
I am very much in love with my man now and i dont need him to constantly reassure me of his devotion to me.
The main thing is that I am happy inside with who i am so when i get the attention that i used to crave from another third party, all i can think of is how much i adore my man. I would never do anything to hurt him.
Cheating is selfish. Its about ego and insecurity, attention and a quick fix.
True love is selfless. Its about giving, trustin and relying upon one another. When you grow up and like yourself, its not something that is even considered.
2006-09-04 17:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past, I've cheated. For several years I did not have a relationship with only one man. The man I'm with now has made me feel like he doesn't deserve to be cheated on and I've stopped. I think it all depends on if you should or not. If you're young and wanting to experience life, then go ahead... or talk to your man about having an open relationship. But if you feel you're ready to settle down or you'd really like to give yourself to someone, make it all about the two of you. Surprisingly enough, not cheating, is not that bad.
2006-09-05 01:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by rawkinpunkbabie86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite all the answers of no, or never, it does happen. My wife has cheated on me with two men that I know of. Most all of you wouldn't know this, but I'm a well respected man, kind, loving romantic, good father and provider. I have many positive attributes. I've been father and mother to my children. I'd say that my wife cheated on me for reasons of mental instability, diagnosed bi polar, treated as an inpatient on at least three occasions. Since that time, she has learned, somewhat, to control her instability. Something that wasn't discovered was her dependent personality, probably genetic, for things like drugs and alcohol, thrilling moments, ways to avoid depression. When a person is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, what seems like fun at the time isn't necessarily so! Other women may well do it because they've fallen for the guy who seems to be there, supporting her in her complaints about the current husband. Meaning the guy sucks up to her and tells her what she wants to hear, like how he could never do those things to her. Her current husband may be a louse, or lousy in bed, or an alcoholic himself, and those may be used as excuses, although not really valid. Hopefully these things will shed some light on your current situation.
2006-09-05 00:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, whats the point of having a man if you are going to cheat on them..
2006-09-05 00:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never! I have no need to cheat. He's wonderful and gives me everything I need and more. I have cheated on boyfriends in the past, but none of those relationships were all that serious.
2006-09-05 00:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I never ever would cheat on my husband I love my husband very much he's been very loyal and honest to me we've been married for 4 years we got married when I was 18 when we stood there we meant those vowels I married him because I wanted to be with him and only him for the rest of my life what's the point of getting married if your going to cheat or not take vowels serious???
2006-09-05 01:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever EVER. That's so wrong. If I wanted to cheat on him, then it's time to break up with him (first). It's only fair.
2006-09-05 00:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on my man. i might break up with him if i thought i was in love with some other person first if that were to ever hapen
2006-09-05 00:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by froggy_dimebag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON MY MAN!
HE DOESN'T DESERVE IT and I DON'T DESERVE IT.
If I did, it's gonna hurt me too, eventually, I will learn that IT'S COMPLETELY STUPID. People are trying to be strong in their relationships ya know! It's those pathetic HOMEWRECKERS that cause a lot of PROBLEMS TOO!
2006-09-05 00:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if i don't have any feelings for him, i would cheat on him. instead i would just break off with him. i would not want to have a single bit of guiltness when i face him.
2006-09-05 00:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋