i like being with guys and making out w/e but i dont wanna be a slut, im 16 years all and all guys seem to wanna do now a days is hook up and use girls. i dont wanna be used but how can i still have fun and not get emotionally attached to these guys. i dont wanna be prude or a slut.
2006-09-04 17:37:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stick to your convictions...you aren't a ****!
Stay pure..have fun...Don't lead a dude on (Not sayingtyou are), Stay cool
I'm 31, my g/f is 25, she is a virgin and we have been together for 9 mons now and it is the most awesome relationship I have ever had!
Mr. Respect is out there for you...I promise!
2006-09-04 17:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Skipper1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guys you know want to hang out and use girls, then your decision is simple to make. Don't hang out with them.
Spend your time studying and trying to become the smartest girl in school. No hanging out. Your plan is to hang out after you've achieved your "smartest girl in school" goal. By that time, the really smart guys who are not into using girls will be paying serious attention to you. You can hang out with them, if you feel you must hang out with people.
If you choose this route, you'll end up with a great guy who is smart like you and makes a lot of money, and you'll also have a great job where you make a lot of money, and the two of you will get to enjoy the best life you can possibly imagine.
If you choose to go a different route, well....you know what you'll be throwing away. It's your choice.
I'm not trying to sway you, and (sadly) I really don't care which way you go. I don't know you and won't see you suffer if you make wrong choices. But you sound like you have a brain and are capable of using it, so I just thought it might be worthwhile to take the time to write to you and share my thoughts with you.
2006-09-04 17:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a **** has nothing to do with not getting emotionally attached, actually, you'r more of a **** if you can just make out with any random hot guy who you don't particularly care for. Use discretion, adn try dating a guy for a bit before kissing him. You've got plenty of time to enjoy men without hooking up with every guy in your school just because you want to have fun.
2006-09-04 17:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, you need to find someone that you like and hook up with that person and get to know them because right now you're making yourself sound really easy and girls that are easy gets what they deserve.... you can still have fun without making out with guys....just hang out with a few friends.... go out and and do something fun but you need a man in your life....and make sure you can trust him....
2006-09-04 17:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha im a guy and im not really like that but the way u have fun is u talk to a guy about sexual stuff for a couple of weeks then maybe kiss and make out take it alittle farther if u want but never **** them unless ur ready cuz guys when they are teased and dont get what they want then they stay interested they see it as a challenge...... i know i do but ya im 16 also and ive slept wit gurls enough to know what im doing lol just play it by ear if u have ???'s email me at illmatic_nyc2004@yahoo.com or im me illmatic_nyc2004
2006-09-04 17:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by young nipplez 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be worrying about your lessons and making really good grades in school. If you want to go to college one day, you will need A's and B's...... Hang out with your girl friends. Date guys if you want, but put college first, even if you go for a year.
It will be much easier for you to get a job with at least some college. Besides, you should not get married until you are 28. Get that "running around" out of your system until you are a bit older.
2006-09-04 17:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by rasckal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kno wat u mean but if u dont wanna hook up and all they want is to hook up then why waste ur time with them it might be hard to find a decent guy out there that doesnt have sex on his mind but trust me he is out there i kno i have found a few of them...why would u wanna be used by these guys i kno i have done that b4 and i jus felt used and dirty and he actually ignored me after and the only time he would talk to me was if he wanted to hook up again! wat a as s ho le rite but anyways theres lot of fun things to do if a guy doesnt wanna do that wit u then find other friends who will want to spend time with u and ahve fun because they like you not because they know they will get somthing out of it such as hooking up
2006-09-04 17:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "now a days"? That's always been the case. Just be careful and save it for marriage. The best way is to stay away from drugs and booze and never be alone with any boys.
2006-09-04 17:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by joeymac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just decide where to draw a line. Don't let yourself get used. You can just hang out, and decide how far you want to go. But you can probably just change your circle of friends to some that have the same values as you.
2006-09-04 17:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The smart thing to do would be to wait until you're in a serious relationship to "have fun". If you don't, then face it, you're a ****.
2006-09-04 17:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by ncladams 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋