I have had the same boyfreind 7 years,we don't live togather.How do I know if he is cheating?He ask me to move in then he moved into the ranch he works the same week.He only called a few times,he didn't have a phone.I find out he went to his old apt. on weekends 4 times.He made a excuse to me.His name is wrote on his bedroom wall near a girls name.He said one of his roomates wrote it.A neighbor told me she seen him outside hugging all over a prostitute or girl.He said she lied because she's jelous of us.I ask why he moved when he ask me to move in and how he got to his old apt. and he got mad and said I couldn't come this week.Then he said he'd call and tell me.These are only some of the things going on.Please tell me what to do,if you think he's cheating and how I can tell for sure.PLEASE,thanks.
2006-09-04 17:20:55 · 26 answers · asked by Breanna P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The important thing about him going to his old apt. was that was the only way we could have seen each other,but his new apt. on the ranch was too far away.You may e-mail me if you want to talk more about this or more questions.
2006-09-04 17:28:38 · update #1
He lived at the ranch 4 weeks and was moved back in his old apt. over a week before he called and told me.
2006-09-04 17:31:45 · update #2
Sorry,one last thing.He has a red mark on his chest the size of a dime.He said a horse did that(that small),he works with horses.Hickey or horse?
2006-09-04 17:47:57 · update #3
sweetie, this guy is bad news. he's playing you. get rid of him and wait for a nice guy. it might take a while but they're out there. why beat yourself up over this guy even if it takes a while to find someone new. it will hurt for a time, but you'll be better off in the long run.
2006-09-04 17:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by larry l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the guy is guilty and back pedaling. The real question here is how do you feel about this guy. I think a lot of guys cheat especially when they are not married. You have called his bluff and he is looking like a deer staring into the head lights of a car at night. So the ball is in your court. You can put your foot down and let him know regardless of what has happened up to now. It stops now or you will be leaving. Or you can call it quits now if you feel you can never trust him. You need to do what your heart tells you. Only you know this guy and what he is really like. Hope things work out for you.
2006-09-05 00:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mark67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is cheating then he probably is. That is the only way I can put it. If he has been your boyfriend for seven years also you should leave him because after 1 good year for me and no engagement ring things just are not too promising. He should be let go because you can do bad all by yourself.
2006-09-05 00:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by ibcookn04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't say for sure. Trust your instincts, usually our instincts are right about these things, I know mine are. Have a serious converstaion about this with him and do some investigating of your own. If he asked you to move in and was cheating that doesn't make a whole lot of sense so I would take that into consideration. Good luck! : )
2006-09-05 00:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is cheating. as my mom once told me: if someone hides one thing from you think of how many other things they are hiding. i think that your bf should be history! you are too nice to this guy and he is taking full advantage of you since you have been together for so long and that he can always come back to you if he messes up. go with your guts as well since it is intuition which does not lie!
2006-09-05 00:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating and you are just a convienence *sp* for when he wants a piece of butt. I would toss his sorry butt to the curb and all his crap with him. You don't need him....for the Life of me, why do people stay in so-called Relationships where it is so obvious there is cheating going on....
2006-09-05 00:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are being played....... and are just a side dish, or at least that is how it seems from here...... I can not tell you he is cheating, that is something you will have to look into.... ask urself what YOU feel he is doing..... your heart will stear you right...... you need to look inside urself, is he the Mr. Right of your dreams ?? God bless
2006-09-05 00:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him and take his word. keep asking but don't over do it. let him know your forgiveing. and if he is he will admit it and tell you. then you can do what ever
P.S. the sastistics of someone who blames or thinks thair partner is cheating on them is 92 percent the blamer is the one cheating.
so if i were you i would stop :)
2006-09-05 00:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where there's smoke there's fire ....
Another relevant little saying is this: If you love something, set it free, if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't then it never was.
I've never really met anyone with enough courage to do that though.
2006-09-05 00:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he shown sudden changes in his regular way of being? Has he suddenly become more careful of you? Probably he's cheating.
2006-09-05 00:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jorge Alberto G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋