I adore my friend of over a year. I was in a serious relationship when I met him. After my break up, we started seeing each ther one-on-one. We have been "hanging out" for eight months now but he hasn't made a move. He always says he cares a lot about me and that we "get" each other. What does he want? I would like more but my friendship with him is so important to me that I don't want to risk the rejection for fear of losing his friendship. Do you think he might like to be more than friends?
2006-09-04 17:17:27 · 13 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, these things just have to happen on their own accord. You strike me as young, and I can assure you that if he's young, his hormones are going crazy. If he hasn't made a move and you conclude it's because he's shy, why don't you make it? If you don't think that's it, well, look at it this way. You haven't lost a lover, you've gained a true friend.
2006-09-04 17:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say. Ask him. If you don't want to ruin the friendship then don't take the risk. But if you don't take the risk you might always wonder and never know. What is more important to you. Make a pros and cons list, this might help you to decide.
2006-09-05 00:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r lucky 2 have a friend.
contiue friendship and am sure it will turn into something more serious-a relationship.
some guys take longer to commit.
these are the guys who just dont snap a relationship quickly later on.
there is a saying " a fruit which takes time to ripen is sweeter".
best of luck.
2006-09-05 00:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes most men always want things to get more intimate or he wouldn't spend time with you, Hes probably afraid of rejection and that's why he doesn't make a move on you. just ask him point blank "what do you want from this relationship"?
2006-09-05 00:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't made a move in 8 months, then you need to look elsewhere. Either he isn't interested, or he is but is so unable to communicate that that you would be dealing with that sort of wishy-washiness throughout the entire relationship, which is unbearable.
2006-09-05 00:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he seeing anyone? I would come out and tell him how you feel..maybe he is waiting for you to make the move first...sometimes "slow" realtionships make the better, long lasting ones...at least you both know each other and feel comfortable with each other..he may be saving himself for marriage too...how noble if so!!
2006-09-05 00:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by iwrk4911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might trying playing a game with him..............."What if?"
Ask him what he thinks would happen if.........
you two took it took it to the next level???????
What would it be like if you lived together?????????
What life would be like if you ????
If you'd be a good Mother
or he a good father?
Then you'll get an idea if he has ever thought about it.
You can just say just courouis.
Nothing ventured.............
Good Luck
2006-09-05 00:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by fred f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he flirt with you? does he touch your hand or try to hold it? then that might mean he want's something more. just tell him how you feel. he is your friend and i don't think he would ever stop being that even if you told him. so just go for it!
2006-09-05 00:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-05 00:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by ENERGiZER BUNNy<3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a woman, you can rev up your motor to an extent, but ulitimately the ball is in his court. What would you do anyway, ask him out? No, don't.
2006-09-05 00:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋