I MISS MY EX BOYFRIEND AND I AM MOVING OUT OF MY PARENTS HOUSE AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE HURT THEM AND I JUST FEEL LIKE I HURT EVERYONE I HAVE KNOWN IN MY LIFE SO IF I DIE I WON'T CAUSE ANYMORE HURT.... HOW CAN I STOP THIS FEELING?
2006-09-04 16:28:00 · 34 answers · asked by shygirlelm 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You will cause more pain if you leave with unresolved issues. Resolve before you evolve! Suicide is never the solution, pain is part of the process of growing up, it also lets us know that we are alive. And life is the biggest adventure of them all!
We are all entitled to making mistakes, but don't turn a simple misunderstanding into a fatal mistake. Learn from your pain and this experience, you can rebuild your life and learn to have fun again, I promise you. You are too young to be seeing the end of things! You have only just begun, you are moving into the world to make your space in it...
Moving out of your parents house is not the end, its just a new begining... Your parents may seem disappointed now, but when you show them how well you're doing, how wonderfully you are taking care of your self, they will be proud of you and will understand what you are doing.
DON'T GIVE UP, GIRL! Life is waiting for you... Live it to the fullest! Take it from someone who's been there...There is always something wonderous that will take - and keep - our attention out there, don't miss it, girl!!!
Good luck, God Speed, Full Speed Ahead!!
Lourdes.
2006-09-04 16:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by magical_whimsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you die, a lot of people will be hurting a lot more. Kinda selfish, don't you think?
Sure things are stressful right now. Moving sucks. There arent' many parents that are happy to see their kid go. You're only missing your boyfriend because you're feeling lonely and need some comfort. Well he's an ex for a reason don't forget, and if you get in touch with him, you'll have to put up with his bs all over again. Take a nice bath, decorate your new digs, and call a friend. This is just a rough patch. Don't worry, it'll pass!
2006-09-04 17:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything drastic, please allow me to suggest to you to go to your county morgue office.
In many cities and towns you can get permission to view the embalming process and general crypt "visitors".
Once you see, first hand what you are suggesting for yourself and your family, ( cuz remember, they will be "YOU" when you are laying on the table) my guess is that you will have a change of heart and will enjoy the sun coming up tomorrow.
Now, don't go saying... owwwwwooowo, because this is what your wanting is to be dead, so you may as well fess up and go see what and where you will be before your 6 feet under in the dark, or burned up and then put in a great big blender if your family decides to cremate you. Yes, I said, "blender".
After your put into the 3500 degree furnace, they take a broom, just like the one in the kitchen and sweep up your ashes into a literal "dust pan" . They then have to put you into a commercial size blender so that your bones pulverize. After about an hour of 'grinding', they open up the bottom "shoot" and you pour into a clear plastic bag.
So, let us know, if you don't decide to kill yourself, if this is what you REALLY WANT?
2006-09-06 18:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real brave person is a person who can admit mistakes , because then she can get on with life again. She learned from mistakes and become better and stronger.
Who on this earth do not make mistake ? make the wrong decision ? trust the wrong person ? give a wrong judgement ?
The important point is , we need to boldly admit our mistake , keep your head up and continue on .
think of the positive side , this happened has made you definitely a stronger and tougher person.
Get busy with life , may be the first step is to declare to your parents you are no longer with your ex . and tell them how sorry you are that what you did hurted them . Whether they forgive you or not is not important . Once you say it out , you set yourself free from guilt.
Make friends , talk to friends , get busy , helps others , you will find that there are many misfortunate persons on this earth and they never give up , they fall they get up , you can too.
2006-09-04 16:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being very selfish. So what there will be plenty more boyfriends and if you think you have hurt your parents sit down and talk to them. Sometimes we have to go through things while we are growing and they hurt. Taking your life is not the answer to the hurt.....work through it and be strong. If you feel as if you can't handle it on your own, go to the nearest emergency room and ask for help.....they will help you. Now take care and be strong.
2006-09-04 16:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by phattybiggums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok a guy is not worth you dieing over or no one your life is important and im sure your family loves you very much i think you should go see your doctor. Also let me tell you something if you go and kill your self you known wats going to happen there going to bury you and everyone is going to keep living your ex your family everyone. Its not worth it live your life there are plenty of guys out there and you have friends you dont need your ex boyfriend to live im sure before him you were living just fine. Good luck to you and try and seak help those sucide feelings arent normal
2006-09-04 16:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon to feel sadness, but suicide is extreme for your case. There are so many horrible things going on, things much worse than what you have stated. I really hope you re-think your situation, make the best of what you have been given..LIFE..and spend more time around things that make you happy. If being around your ex helps call him, or start dating again. As your parents, try finding a resolution, talking to them via a letter or e-mail.
2006-09-04 16:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ankh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you have hurt your parents then talk to them tell them that you didn't mean to hurt them. I felt that way too when I was young, but really it does get better and you will find another boyfriend that will be even better to you. Good luck and take care.
2006-09-04 16:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dying will actually cause more hurt. Talk to your parents. Let them help you.
You can stop feeling this way by making an appointment with your Doctor or Therapist. A regular Doctor can and will perscribe antidepressants if you don't want to see a psychiatrist.
2006-09-04 16:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u kill yrslf u then u will really hurt the ppl around! Watever hurt u hv done doesnt really hurt them as long as u dun do it again la... find some friends to talk or get yrslf a hobby tat will help u get over it...
2006-09-04 16:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋