ok im 13 i live with my grandparents and my mom lives in another state, my grandparents can't pay for the house any more and now they wanna live in the state were my mom lives, its not that i dont wanna go its just that for me it's hard to make friends and i don't wanna move again this is like the 7th time we've moved and i don't wanna move again, i already talk to my mom about it and she got kinda made (really mad)because she wants us to live together.not that i don't want to but you know it hard moving and being the new girl...... what should i do ???? HELP PLZ !
2006-09-04 16:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by Chanel babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Moving 7 times just isn't right. I am very sorry. However, military families move very frequently and the kids adjust. Make them promise to stay put until you graduate after this move.
2006-09-04 16:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some experienced advice. My dad was in the Army for 20 years, we moved every year, i mean every year. I can relate to you as far as the moving thing, it is tough to be the new kid, i did this more times than carter has liverpills, nevermind, i mean i did it a lot. You never get use to it, making new friends all the time being the new kid, ohh yeah, ive been there. I lived in colorado, california, tennessee north carolina and even Germany, been to 8 to 10 different schools during my scholastic career. (K-12). All you can really do is try to make the best of it, sometimes making new friends and keeping up with them when you move makes it easier, because you can still write them and keep in contact, i did that for years, it helped me a lot. Plus, just think of all the people you have ever known in your life. Do something constructive with that information, write a diary, write a book about your travels, that kinda thing. There are more pros than cons to doing this than you think. Writing always makes me feel better about things, lets off some negetive energy. Hope this helped you, Good luck and take care.
2006-09-04 23:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but at your age you don't have a choice besides you need your mother and you will meet People where you go it may take a while but have a little faith and pray and ask God to help you I was shy to when I was your age and ppl came up to me and made friends with me just pray it dose work and like i said you need your mom she will always be there for you and friends can come and go I don't keep in touch with any of my friends from school now i am 43 but I am still need my mom sometimes trust me God knows what is best for you!!!
2006-09-04 23:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Jesus♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do but go with them. that's a challenge on your part to be more adjustable and open to new places, things and people. i experienced moving from a place to another also with my family, even more than the times you did. it really requires patience and understanding the situation. be good, girl. and just enjoy your new place. your grandparents cant pay your old place right? so you must go with the flow of circumstances, unless you're at the right age and you can choose to stay forever where you can live. good luck
2006-09-04 23:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by snoopy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move and be with your family.
2006-09-04 23:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't have a choice, quit whining.
2006-09-07 05:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋