Ok. This guy I been diggin 4 about a month now. I know he's diggin me 2 because he gave me his # first, then I offered mine 2. We are both 23 years old. We talked about 2 times and text a few times a week. I invite him to the house, but there's always a reason he cant.(He does not have a girlfriend, everyone knows this) So I figured he just dont like me.
But if I see him at the club, and walk past him like I dont see him, he'll call me out to where he's at, or if he sees other guys dancing with me, he'll sneak up behind me and dance with me. I (and others) always see him stealing glances at me, but he doesnt initiate anything, or accept advances.
Ok, so I'm like f*** it, he aint feelin me.
Here's where it gets confusing. I told a mutual friend of ours that I dont think he likes me, and she was like, "no, he talked about you the whole way home, about how pretty you are and all." I'm like "huh? Him? Me?"
2006-09-04 15:43:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her and her brother both say hes reall shy and shady unless he's drunk. He will ride to the club with them one nite, and then the next nite he's there with someone else, and he wont even speak to them, until they do first. so he's like this to everyone. she said in the last 7 years, she's only know him to date one gir.
If you ladies could see how FINE he is, u would understand how crazy it is for him to be this way.
2006-09-04 15:46:02 · update #1
My question isn't so much what you guys think about me and him, but moreso what kind of person he may be?
Do you think maybe he has a mental problem?
But he's so damn fine, OMG! (He's Indian)
2006-09-04 15:48:06 · update #2
Thanx guys for the advice so far.
I have been VERY direct about how much I want him BTW, so there should be no doubt on his part.
And our friend says he is VERY shy.
2006-09-04 15:50:26 · update #3
He's either shy or doesn't think you will go for him. If you like him then you are going to have to put yourself out there.....more than you have already. If that doesn't work, then he might be gay and just want a shopping partner.
2006-09-04 15:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is afraid.. shy.. doesn't know how to act around you in a setting where it is just the two of you?? Talk to him come right out and ask after all you are not kids.. you should be able to communicate if not then it will never go any where any way... open up..
2006-09-04 22:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it, his shy. I may also add that Indian man fallow certain traditions, through strict parents. He may not be allow to date out of his culture, maybe that one girl was a secret from his parents. Then again I could be wrong and he might have more modern parents. Just talk to him, ask him what's the D lee O.
2006-09-04 22:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but if he doesn't accept your invitations then don't waste too much time wondering. If he likes you he'll eventually get the nerve to let you know. Slip him a note with directions to your place. Let him know you are expecting him.
2006-09-04 22:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays, its not the "In" thing anymore for a guy to go to a girl's house . . might as well go to his house, he he. I am convinced he likes you too. . . why not hint something when you're texting each other. . . like "A friend of mine said we'd be great as a couple. . is she insane?" Let's see what he'll text back.
2006-09-04 22:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by ramona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first,the (digging) thing was out in the 80's lol. now to ans, he must like what you have as far as i read into this, thats a good thing to.because when a man doesent really know a women,yet he shows in a'lot of way's He likes Her, it's him being shy, and along with that, it kinda gos to show hes likley a easy Person to get along with. good luck hun let me know how it turns out
2006-09-04 22:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being direct with him and tell him how you feel about it. He may think that you are not totally into him. The best you can do is be honest with your feelings and tell him that you would like a relationship.
2006-09-04 22:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the really shy guy? They come in all sizes, shapes and ages. I think you may have one of them now.
2006-09-04 22:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, he sounds like a jerk. it sounds harsh, but hey, he sounds like a very confusing and semi messed up dude. that, or he likes you alot, but just doesnt wanna be in an actual relationship for some reason. you could always try talking to him and see whats up.
2006-09-04 22:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Hollz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him. Find someone who doesn't like to play head games.
2006-09-04 22:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋