He always hugs me when he sees me (but that could just be friendly), he talked to me first, and he's a cool guy. However, we've 'known' each other for a couple of years, and we've never tried to go out. I have been feeling this way for only a little while.
We go to college and we don't see each other on a regular basis, about once a week maybe. Also, we have not exchanged phone numbers or hung out one-on-one. Should I tell him how I feel? Or is it obvious? Keep in mind that a lot of guys these days don't realize it when a girl likes them, and also, more and more guys wait on women to ask them out. What should I do? Thanks for the advice!
2006-09-04 15:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by SexyBack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grl, he can't read ur mind. just say something like: u feeling him and u think he feeling u and do u want 2 go out sometimes. if he tells u he just want to be friends. well, u have ur answer and get with someone wanna be with u.
u r a nice looking grl and got ur education going on. dont waste his time or urs if it dont go as u hope.
however if it does that would be cool. good luck and i hope u pick me for best answer since i put my heart into it (smile).
2006-09-04 15:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can see that you feel is interest. No need to tell him that. Just ask him out for coffee. Take your time to get to know him better in this situation. C'mon! You are a college girl now. Next time you see him on campus, or wherever, just invite him to Starbucks! Your treat. See what happens from there!
Congratulations on being in college. Don't forget your primary focus is the books!
2006-09-04 22:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being the one to make the first move even if you're a woman. But you might get disappointed . . basing on your story, even if he's the most bashful guy in the world, by this time, he must have shown you some signs already that he fancies you too. But you haven't mentioned any instance about it, so I guess, there's really nothing more to it than as you said. . . he is just being friendly.
2006-09-04 22:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by ramona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, thats a hard one. I say, the next time the two of you get into a conversation interrupt it and just be blunt. Ask him how he feels about you. He will then be like, what? And just explain from there. You don't have to come out and say how you feel about him unless he ask. Just ask him a few questions that he will know what your getting at. He may not respond and if this happens I'm sure he will be thinking about it later on and get back with you about it.
2006-09-04 22:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!! ask him out, stare into his eyes with your sexy outfit on, wear that smelly good stuff and put what god gave you beautiful women to work. If he cant figure it out then and take control of the situation, then mayby he just wants to be friends which is ok, or mayby he,s dead,..laugh..My wife got me like that which now i tell her she put some roots on me, laugh, but what it really was ,,,,,her beauty which 13 years latter she still has. good luck..
2006-09-04 22:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take the leap of faith and just go for it. he may know but want you to make the first move don't be shy something good could be waiting for you, and if you wait to long you may regret it . SO GO FOR IT! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-04 22:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel it wont hurt and then hell know so you wont have to keep wondering and thinking. He must feel you to some level. That my opinion. Hey you wont kow until you ask...simple
Good luck
2006-09-04 22:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell if how you feel about him the next time you see him and where that leads you.Good luck.
2006-09-04 22:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him tell him and screw his brains out.. use protection of course..
2006-09-04 22:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by terryshawn1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, he's not a mind reader !
2006-09-04 22:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋