I was teased about being a vrigin when I was 10 years old. Many girls in my community have trains run on them. The average girl in my town has been with upwards of ten men. Is it like this in white and Mexican communities too? Unfortunately my parents were married and committed to each other so I feel ill equiped to funtion in the fatherless community I live in. Should I start dating white women because it seems 90% of black women are whores. Please tell me white communities are just like black ones so I can just move on with my life without thinking I was robbed of a normal childhood.
2006-09-04 15:39:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also grew up in a well-raised family. My parents are well-educated, religious, and committed to each other. As you can see by my avatar, I am African-American woman. What sucks is that Black people always resented me and called me white for not being ghetto. I never particpated in sex or other raunchy activities. As far as they were concerned, I never got down like them and did anything wrong. Back then, I was young and felt like such a victim, but never wanted to change. I never understood why there was so much hostility towards me, but now I see that it was just jealousy. To be honest, it's where you live, the way those Black people were raised, and the kind of values they wish to adhere to. We are not all whores. I am deeply religious and only ONE man will ever have sex with me. I have met other Black women who are the same as well. One last thing, I've noticed that the Black people and other races who live in the city tend to have a more fast and aggresive lifestyle as opposed to those who live in the suburbs. It's probably just your surroundings.
2006-09-07 12:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't believe that 90% of black women are whores. Maybe 90% of the ones that you know. And in the white population, most white female girls loose their virginity before the age of 13, and I'm sure they are doing the same things as the black girls. So get your facts together "Mr I live in a black community." I think it just that the world has become so corrupt that teens have no value or self esteem anymore. They feel that they have to do what the crowd is doing so they fit in. I would hope that you were still a virgin until 16. Children loosing their virginity at 10 is just absurd. I'm just glad for you that you didn't fall victim of peer pressure at the age of ten. There are so many diseases out there.
2006-09-04 15:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe some of the things I read. I am a black woman and I have never heard the stats that you stated of 90% of us being whores. I would like to know where you get your stats from. I am sure that you can find whores in any nationality. What are you looking for? If you're looking for good women why concern yourself with the stats of whores?
2006-09-04 15:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tanja S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, where I grew up it wasn't like that. Most girls didn't even think about sex until 16 or 17. Somewhere around there a lot of my girlfriends lost their virginity. I hope it stays that way for a long time, I will not be ready to discuss sex with a 10 year old.
2006-09-04 15:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling you what you want to hear will not solve any problems. Yes, some white communities are just like some black communities. In every race, there are communities that are not up to par. It is VERY FORTUNATE that your parents were married and committed to each other, and for you to say otherwise is extremely disrespectful. You do not have to behave as those in your community do. You only have to behave as you see right and fit. Your community influences you, but doesn't SHAPE you. You see?
2006-09-04 15:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think 90% of black women are whores. I think you got the wrong impression because of the hood you were living in.
You should date a girl you like, not caring about whether she black or white. Just let your prejudice go.
2006-09-04 15:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ankhesenamun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin and don't believe in sex before marriage.
and Im 20, lived in the same kinda neighborhood you descibed.
I was robbed of a normal childhood but I never got so mixed up in sex!!!
please, save it for marriage. dont become the male version of the women you just described.
2006-09-05 11:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously living in a bubble. I'm black and could never say the things that you've said in your question. There's no way to label a whole race. It's called discrimination and it's wrong. You need to watch Roots and The Color Purple b4 you make judgements against your own peeps. No matter what color someone is they may expliot themselves and their bodies. get educated and go to other communities and see how life is. Just grow up and live, you'll see.
2006-09-04 15:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lady G 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No way. I lived in a comunity that was probably 99% white and nobody was teased about being a 10 year old virgin, everybody was a virgin at 10. I'm not saying that I'm racist, that is just my community.
2006-09-04 15:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahah. Maybe....
I live in more of a mexican/white trash community (unfortunately there's a lotta white trash) with a splash of blacks. lol It's prrretty much the same here. Not AS bad I'm sure---a lotta the people I'm surrounded by are mormons so yeah.....haha-People don't talk about sex AS much as they would if it wasn't so overpopulated with mormons-and I'm not even in Utah. lol :o) I'm mormon myself so I'm aloud to openly talk about it. :)))
2006-09-04 16:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋