I'm a Christian that regularly goes to church by the way.
2006-09-04 15:29:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Not everyone we meet is intended to be "the one". Everyone has a right to choose who they wish to be with. Being a Christian does not mean girls are "suppose" to be your girlfriends. Sorry Charlie, but you are way off one this one. Unconditional love does not mean having to see someone that you are not attracted to. Some females, and I am one of them, can tell within an hour or less if they want to be in a relationship with a guy.
2006-09-04 15:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by jorettah2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because some one attends church does not mean they are Christians. What is regularly - once a week - once a month - once a year?
If you say you are a Christan then why do other Christians dump you?
What I believe is this - your unconditional Love and the unconditional love taught in the Bible are 2 totally different things!
2006-09-04 15:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Gladiator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of love you're talking about is not the same unconditional love the Bible speaks of.
Unconditional love is a caring type love - not lust, not romance or self interest type of venture you're looking for. Which may explain why you cant keep a Christian girl friend. You're confusing love with lust and completely self centered.., a characteristic that puts a shadow on your standing as a Christian in the first place.
You may want to consider getting your priorities in order.
2006-09-04 15:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be confused..... A Christian "Love" for one's fellow human and love for a date are two very very different things! You still need certain skills with women... or just social skills. Just because someone is the same religion doesn't mean you are compatible. My advice is to practice going on dates without expecting too much. Just enjoy as much as possible going out. Don't build it up too much in your mind. If you want to try something like e-harmony, I bet you could find someone who would be very compatable. Good luck, Dating is hard work!
2006-09-04 15:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant really give u an exact answer....sorry. i am a christian and just because we are supposed to give unconditional love doesnt mean that goes towards dating. i mean if it did then how would we choose who to marry and stuff. im sorry they have been dumping u...i guess u just havent found the right girl, but trust me, youll find her.
*jesuslovesu!!!*
2006-09-04 15:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by jesuslovesu!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad luck perhaps. Maybe they were too worldly or maybe you were too worldly. I had to dump a few girls for the same reason. Best advice is to not force it and marry a girl that is your friend. Whatever you do, make sure shes gets along with her parents good!!!! Otherwise she will tend to treat you after a while being married JUST HOW SHE TREATS THEM.
2006-09-04 15:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not THAT kind of love that they are supposed to show. But maybe you can find a nice Christian girl who is kind enough to tell you what you are doing wrong.
2006-09-04 15:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get and Read The Book, "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" By Joshua Harris. IT will totally change your view on dating, marriage, being single, and doing God's Will. Seek God's will first and the kingdom of Heaven, He will add everything unto you and thats promise.
GET THE BOOK!!!
2006-09-04 15:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by sanctusreal77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meant? or has? does the christian god has unconditional love for us?--- may be a greater clever question. and definite. he has. @human beings asserting love and-then asserting eternal torture. God instructions all to repent (Acts 17:30) yet tens of millions dont. you do not likely could desire to study greater beneficial than one verse to be responsive to that the preferrred Ruler of all, would not constantly get what He needs.
2016-10-01 07:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might think your not their type.
I personally am not the type of girl that dumps a guy after the first date, because first impressions can be decieving at times.
2006-09-04 15:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋