I thought my boyfriend and I had a good relationship until the other day. He came home from work and told me that he didn't know if he loved me, and if he wanted to have a relationship with me. This was totally unexpected and out of the blue. This guy and I have only been dating about 6 weeks, yet I already have my doubts about the relationship. He always tells me that he needs his space, and when I try to give it to him, he'll change his mind. I have no idea what to do about this. My heart says to stay with him, but my head tells me to get out of it right now.
2006-09-04 15:25:04 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa. Get away from him. First of all, you've only been dating 6 weeks, and he's telling you he doesn't know if he loves you? 6 weeks is hardly long enough to make a decision like that. Second, do you live with him? You said he came home.. that's bad news as well. Dump him. He's not the one for you. He's wishy washy and doesn't know what he wants. Do you want a confused person as your boyfriend? I wouldn't say he's cheating on you. It just sounds like he's immature. Dump him. Trust me, you'll be happier once you do. It's only been 6 weeks! They say it takes half the time you dated someone to get over them. So you're looking at 3 weeks of grieving.. not too bad.
2006-09-04 15:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Odds are it wasn't just "outta the blue" Odds are you didn't see the hints and signs that a guy is unfulfiled.
The fact that he can't make up his mind either way tells me he's young, and wouldn't know a good thing if it bit him in the tookus!
6 weeks is a short enough time to move on before it becomes a real problem.
Hearts usually say one thing and the head always another,, but the head almost always prevails!
Odds are you're yo8ung, and can probably get someone who appreciates you and knows what they really want.
Don't let your heart trap you,, use your head before it's too late.
If all else fails, keep him around, but date others at the same time. Some people hate going cold turkey while shopping around for a new person.
I myself like a clean break then after I'm done go for some anattached non committed guy friends.
Lifes to short
2006-09-04 15:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom_Fighter_From_Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds alittle confused about where the relationship is going he may need space to sort out his problems . but this early in the relationship is a little early to tell maybe your together to much and you just need some time away from each other like hanging out with your friends once in a while . try this it cant hurt...and good luck!!
2006-09-04 15:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bazza is genuinely precise. Babe, you're a passionate, clever (i will tell with the help of the form you write) and probably beautiful guy or woman. you have fallen for a guy who i'm sorry to declare, is none of those issues. you at the instant are not on the comparable internet site anymore and don't have the comparable techniques on what constitutes a relationship. even with the reality that it is going to harm LIKE HELL and you will, as Bazza mentioned, sob into your pillow, hear to songs that remind you of him and could replace into enthusiastic approximately what he's doing/if he's questioning approximately you/did you do the main appropriate element/might desire to this fairly artwork etcetcetc, i could strongly recommend breaking this off and bracing your self for right here few weeks of each and every of the flaws i discussed above. yet! you will recover from this I genuinely promise you. think of it as an ailment the place frequently it gets worse in the previous it gets extra suited. I remember breaking up with my first boyfriend whilst i became your age and that i genuintely might desire to sense my heart breaking and wanting to die. To make it worse I had to be certain him on a daily basis at college along with his (older and much foxier) new lady chum! a minimum of he's miles away, you will in no way run into him that have faith me, will make it soooo plenty much less complicated. think of what you may say to a particular chum if she have been asking your suggestion in this situation. study back what you wrote and in case you do not take something from any of those posts, take this suggestion: have not got A THREESOME WITH HIM!!! it won't make him want you extra, it is going to easily make him see you as a intercourse merchandise (not in stable way) and could anticipate you to do further and extra strange issues. go away him to his weirdo friends and their girlfriends. they could be 'lovable and extraordinarily' yet you're transforming into your integrity and have faith me in this - you will in no way ever be apologetic approximately not having a threesome against your will. terrific of wonderful fortune to you hun xxx
2016-11-24 22:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so over. Let it go. You can find someone who likes you.
I doubt he is cheating, but has realized the relationship is not what he wants.
2006-09-04 15:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This may be a good chance to listen to what your head says. It's your choice, though. He doesn't sound tuned in to what's going on.
2006-09-04 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he's not. he's as loyal as he can be.
in all likelihood u are cheating on him or will be soon.
u are a woman and u are hardwired with wondering eyes and a cheating heart. just please be gentle with him when he finds out. and try to cheat on hi with a stranger, not with his brother or best friend.
2006-09-04 15:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry ninja...but maybe he is..maybe his isnt but tell him to protect his mcnuggets 5 secs before you go ninja on his @$$
2006-09-04 15:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by foreverspoiledprincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants a threesome.
don't believe me? ask him.
2006-09-04 15:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by billmack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋