Back in march this guy named jason asked me out, So I said ok. I really didn't want to becuz he's ulgy and I didn't know him and my friends wouldn't stop bugin' me. Well anyway that same night he wanted to kiss me and I didn't want to so he kissed my cheek. Then I left and I never seen him until school started. Now he's always around me and he's always talking about me with his friends. Should I tell him that I really don't like him, or just let it be? If I don't do anything about it will I just lead him on?
2006-09-04 14:52:07 · 18 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going out with him.
2006-09-04 14:55:47 · update #1
If he keeps it up, take him aside and say "Jason, I know we went out one time last March but I did not feel that we had any chemistry between us and that has been the reason why we have had no contact since then. I wish you best and I am sure that you will find someone who is just right for you."........period.
2006-09-04 14:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the poor guy you are not interested. Guys don't take hints very well, you have to hit them over the head with a 2x4 with something. It might hurt him a little but it will be way worse for him if you keep leading him on.
2006-09-04 14:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mean because just like you said he's ugly, their could be a real hot guy in school who thinks you're not so fly and you'd feel like crap if he said that to you. So just tell him you can be friends but you're not feeling him on the relationship tip. The more friends you have the merrier besides you never know when he could help you in the future.
2006-09-04 15:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lady G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop talking about you to his friends and whoever else he's been flapping his jaws to. And if you didn't want him to kiss you then you shouldn't have even let him kiss your cheek. Another thing--never say someone is ugly. Its rude and you might not be all that attractive to someone out there. With a name like Dr. Dre--enough said. (where's snoop dogg?)
2006-09-04 14:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be honest and truthful about things. I believe that it will be better if you tell him the truth and don't led him on to think that you like or love him...Tell the truth no matter what happens and how he feels after that....Honesty in the best policy! AL~
2006-09-04 14:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by AL~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not a mean person and he's not embarrassing your or offending you directly then leave it alone. Now on the other hand if you just can't stand to even look at him be nice but say how you feel . If he's real he'll understand and appreciate the honesty. +
2006-09-04 15:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Slick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's true, you need to tell him that you don't want to go with him before he gets any further ideas.
Next time, think for yourself Sweet Girl. Don't let others talk you into anything you don't want to do.
2006-09-04 14:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him and you don't do anything about it you will lead him on, and the more heart breaking, when you finally decide to tell him. or you can let it go on and see if you eventually start to like him but seriously if he thinks you like him the more you wait the harder it will be to tell him.
2006-09-04 14:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by |katt| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him how you are only into superficial things like looks and he's better off without you. That's what I would try to explain to him if he was a posting a question here.
2006-09-04 15:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he was thinking too much that your going out with him and his kissing on your cheeks meant something. i say drop the bomb, tell him you dont feel anything special, and that you want him to be just your friend.
2006-09-04 15:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by DJ Alex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋