My boyfriend cheated on me on 2 months ago and Im trying 2 deal with it but it is so hard for me. We really love each other. The girl who he cheated likes him and he likes her. He love me.I really need your help. I think the he and girl is going grow a relationship. I dont want to leave him so what should i do.
2006-09-04 14:36:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is the very foundation of any relationship, and once it's shaken, it's difficult to come back from - but not impossible. To get over it requires you to put the past behind you (and that means not bringing it up each time he screws up,) and move forward. HOWEVER, if this girl is still in the picture, and he allows her to be, that means that he's not dedicated in helping you to get over what happened. My advice to you, and I'm sure you don't want to hear this - move on, and find someone who is worthy of your commitment and dedication. It sounds like he's going to continue to emotionally "batter" you.
2006-09-04 14:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by jasmine828_34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you and he still loves you? Okay that's the biggest line of bull I've ever heard. Sweet heart people don't cheat on people they love. If he really loved you, then why is he still even talking to this chick? Do yourself a big favor, tell him it's over because you think more of yourself then just to be a backup plan. If he's cheated once he will do it again and words like I love you won't make the wound any better.
Be better then sticking around with that zero. Just leave him alone so you don't have to deal with that again. Be better then the lie.
2006-09-04 14:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure he really loves u? If he did, he would not have cheated on you. Talk this straight with him and see for urself the way he really feels about you, just ask him straight. He is the only who can really tell you how he feels about you. u also have the opportunity to move on, maybe he is not the one that u are looking for.
2006-09-04 14:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Im just me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting yourself right now by being in this relationship knowing he still likes her.I think you should leave him.Yes it will hurt but after all is said and done,you will feel a whole lot better in the end.Good Luck
2006-09-04 14:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, if you want to be with a guy that will cheat on you again, stay with your current guy. I think you know that what you need to do is kick him to the curb and find a guy that will be faithful to you.
2006-09-04 14:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to move on.... if he truly loved you, he wouldn't have cheated anyway. And it's a matter of time before he does it again.
2006-09-04 15:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt even make sense...think about it...he cheated on you because he LOVED you? and even if he cheated on you, he still loves you? he doesnt, girl. he likes this new chick and "loves" her i guess! he doesnt love you. and probably never did. sorry. i think you should find someone more deserving. someone who treats you with respect and actually really loves you. a loving person would never do that horrible shiit your stupid bf did. i suggest you get self-respect and move on! he doesnt deserve to be with you.
2006-09-04 14:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Feodora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on quick cause he can't like another girl if he truly loves you. Don't do this to yourself.
2006-09-04 14:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by West Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a cheated, he will continue to do so, do you want to share him the rest of your life, it is your choice
2006-09-04 14:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're convinced he loves you, but his actions don't show it. I think he wants her more. Sorry for being blunt, but he isn't breaking his relationship with her.
2006-09-04 14:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋