I've been actively looking for someone to share a relationship with and it always turns out that I get rejected for one reason or another- always different reasons too. I don't get it... I'm kind, employed, independent, smart, very sexual, and just a normal human being. Why has no one thus far seemed to want me? It must logically have something to do with me if it's the same pattern over and over again, right?
2006-09-04 14:32:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop Looking....the right person will come along when you least expect it. Don't be so hard on yourself, there are people I guarantee that are looking for that special person to share their life with, to love and be loved, that haven't found them yet. Patience.....
2006-09-04 14:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, where are you meeting these people? If it's at a bar then you're looking in the wrong place. Sometimes though, you just live in an area where there aren't a lot of singles activities and it's just hard to meet someone. My best friend is beautiful, successful, intelligent and witty yet is 30 years old and hasn't had a boyfriend in over 10 years. She just lives in an area where there is little to do and few people to meet. Perhaps it's time to start hitting up your friends to introduce you to some singles if you've not already done so. Otherwise, I'd suggest taking up a new activity to meet new people. Perhaps going to bowl at the local bowling alley with a group of friends or joining a singles group if one is affordable and available. Also, be sure the people you're interested in are actually available and not tied down or newly out of a relationship and remember to never EVER seem too desperate. If you come across as codependent or clingy they'll run faster than you can blink!
2006-09-04 21:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by chicpower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been wondering the same thing....only I am 49. I have met 22 men in the past two years (all on various personal dating sites) and only had two ask me out for a second date. These two did not go anywhere at all.
I don't know what the problem is....I think my problem is that I am an older woman and men my age (and even older) want younger, sometimes much younger, women. For now, I am just giving up on it. Maybe someday when the old farts are too old to catch a younger woman they will be interested in someone their own age.
2006-09-04 21:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, so I can't point out the sexact things. But let's start with logic. People each have their own preferences. If you like each other, you'll enjoy each other's company and share intrest in what each other likes.
Make sure you're not dressing to impress others. Wear clothes that you like. If the guy is ok with it, he's good.
And finally, never give up hope. Your guys is out there somewhere, just waiting to find you
2006-09-04 21:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being alone and like it! Sometimes when you try too hard, it never works out. A relationship does not define who you are nor how good of a person you are. Only when you find self worth, will you be your best for a relationship that will flourish. No relationship is working because you don't think it will, you don't think it will because you have low self esteem.
2006-09-04 21:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by denavirgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it happens to millions of others it must be a divine joke or it is an accident,or it is suppose to play out like this cruel as it seems regardless to the millions of tortured souls.
I do hope however you,and all of us find our true love.
All the best.
2006-09-04 21:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I know it is tough but just give it time. Also take your time, Rome wasn't built in a day. If you push the envelope a guy will use any and all excuses to get out. You have a lot to offer just relax and let it happen naturally.
2006-09-04 21:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right person yet. Be yourself but don't try to impress people or think you have to do things just to get/keep a relationship.
2006-09-04 21:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by cdl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just not your turn to get someone right now, take it as a sign that hes not the right one.I'm sure in time you will find that right person for you and you will look back and say, im glad i waited..good luck to you.
2006-09-04 21:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so i looked through some of ur previous ?s.......kill the yeast,we all want a clean box..........dont be desperate tease the next guy,give him some and remain nonchelont....make him come to u....saw ur pic ur hot wish i was there
2006-09-04 21:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by liljimis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋