Everyone seems to be old fashion. Waiting on the man to propose. Is there anything wrong with proposing to a man? I dont think so. What the hell? Give me your thoughts.
2006-09-04 14:28:43 · 12 answers · asked by The Next Top Model 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No way go for It!!! This is the new age you dont have to be traditional.
2006-09-06 00:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if it is wrong to propose to a man or not. I did it and later regretted it because he said yes and then I never got the chance to be proposed to which was something I had looked forward to for half my life. I think there is something very special about a man proposing to a woman. I believe that the man should be the initiator of the marriage covenant, so it makes sense that he should be the one to propose marriage. After we were married, my husband told me that he was disappointed that I proposed before he got a chance to do it. He felt a little cheated out of something he really wanted to do, but he loved me so much that he jumped at the chance to marry me even though he didn't get to be the one asking.
2006-09-05 00:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My very close friend, Marie did this and they got married in February. They had lived together for five years and both had been married before. He is a sweetheart but very reluctant to commit. She put him in the position of having to make a decision, and he made the right one. If she had waited for him, it would have never happened. She took a chance and it worked out great. I say go for it, what do you have to lose?
2006-09-04 17:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ethically wrong.
Just considering the dynamics of man-woman relationships, it might not be a wise idea.
I know the fad is to consider men and women equal in all their parts. But the only equality is in their sum; their parts are different.
There are huge psycholigical differences stemming from the fact that women get pregnant and men don't, and men have their junk outside and women have it inside.
If you took two exact copies of the same person and subjected them to these different conditions, then they would turn out totally different from one another.
2006-09-04 19:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is not any longer some thing incorrect with a lady doing the offering at present, yet i imagine it ought to nevertheless be a special down-on-the-knee situation if she will do it. on the faux ring, that is going to be as incorrect for a lady because it ought to were for a guy to purchase a faux ring and replace it if the different human being suggested certain. i imagine a good type of ladies ought to hate that and it type of feels honest to anticipate an same for a guy.
2016-12-06 10:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with proposing to a man, provided he isn't already married.
2006-09-04 14:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Karen? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. If he's the man you want to marry and you love him, and he loves you, he'll probably be flattered.
Take a chance!
2006-09-04 15:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try making an agreement--don't get down on your knee and ask to be married. Say, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, yada yada ya, and he should catch on..
2006-09-04 16:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if he's the right man.
And IF he's the right man, he'll be flattered...
Good Hunting!
2006-09-04 14:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by blktiger@pacbell.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is perfectly fine to do and see no problems with you doing that.
2006-09-04 15:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋