ok theres this girl right? we were very good friends in middle school. then i developed feelings for her.... now in highscool, shes hanging around with other dudes and stuff....what the heck do i do?
2006-09-04 14:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by James J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were friends then you should easily be friends now. Talk to her and test the waters. She can't read your mind so if you need her to know then you need to tell her. Whatever you do, don't be the creepy jealous guy.
2006-09-04 14:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ronald Raygun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people we date are like water. Hold it tight, and water pours out. Hold it too loose, it still goes out.
Don't be desperate, bide your time, and if possible look at other girls. Keep speaking to your friend, and when the time is right, express your feelings.
And the problem need not be with you, she probably wants a change. You don't have to feel letdown, insecure or suffer from a small ego. People are free to see whomever they want to, aren't they? We don't own anybody.
This situ is as bad as you make it out to be. Move on, dude, to other things, and wait.
2006-09-04 21:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by ASH RAJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, lets see... do you two hang out and or talk regularly? if you do, don't just ask her out, especially if oyu feel it will be random... try just like slowly getting to it... being a girl, i know guys get jealous easily when they like us, when we talk to or hang out with other guys... hopefully, by slowly getting into things you'll make her fall for you... if she doesn't give you the time a day these days, she's not worth your time, and you could do a lot better than her.
2006-09-04 21:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby middle and high school are very different people do change and to her you were just a friend nothing more sorry you should of acted sooner
2006-09-04 21:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, hang out with her... make her know you still want to be her friend.
2006-09-04 21:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try really making her feel special, and hang with her more often. really sweep her off her feet. amaze her. if u were friends, u should know what'll really make her realize how awesome u r, and how happy she'd be if she was dating u.
2006-09-04 21:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Julia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever act on your feelings?
If not, get busy!
ask her out.
2006-09-04 21:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Yes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to have to say get her alone and see if shed like to go out
2006-09-04 21:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by chestymcbust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to start a conversation--She'll take it from there.
2006-09-04 21:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out, b4 some1 else does and u regret not doing it earlier
2006-09-04 21:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by BAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋