me and my gf just broke up after a 3 year relationship she broke my heart in the worst way imaginable and i was wondering where i should go or could go to look for a girlfriend or if i should even bother right now because it happend like 3 days ago and i cant stop thinking about her and if i find someone else it would help get my mind off of her. but where can i go only being 20 yrs old, cant go to no clubs, bars, or anything and being in this boring town there aint many places to go, we have 2 malls, a bowling ally, and a theater but the mall only has youngins, the bowling ally only has youngins or people with their family, and the movies there are only couples.
2006-09-04 14:23:49 · 19 answers · asked by xtremecrakhed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man you don't need to go to a bar, all that you'll find thier is trash. im not much of a church person, but if you can find yourself a good girl, man you better get her because they are far and few between. but that's the same thing for a woman looking for a guy. know what you want and then go after it, and with all of your might try not to just settle, because in the long run you'll make yourself miserable. give yourself some time and everything will work out. i dont' know if i would start seeing anyone yet though, you need to give the next girl your best qualities. take care
2006-09-04 14:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by KORD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcoholics Anonymous!
2006-09-04 14:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be lot's of adult males for the time of your existence which you have an interest in. Are you going to mattress all of them? component to growing to be up is comprehend that it fairly is not functional to attempt and have each and every thing you like. This guy is a married guy with a splash one on the way. Gorw up and element your boobies in yet another direction.
2016-11-24 21:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have a Church social or a friend that can help. You need someone that you can trust (as you feel hurt now). Best place to find this person is friends. Sometimes too you find someone when you are not looking.....
2006-09-04 14:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free man - you can fly to find the butterfly.
Always good place is grocery store or library.
Good lack broken heart.
Praying in church doesn't help but real friends yes - talk to them and take time now.
2006-09-04 14:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeha don't bother...if you get w/someone so quickly its a rebound...you get w/someone and your still thinking about your ex...and you will get hurt again...i've seen this before..so just keep it easy..i'm kinda in that situation..only that ex broke up w/me like a montha go..but we are still cool..but i'm not even bothering looking for someone..just be patient..and when the right time comes the right person will find you! i hope i helped! Good Luck!
2006-09-04 14:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the worst place to meet someone is the bar scene,even thought people think its the best way.How bout the library or you can even talk to girls in the produce area of the grocery store.believe me it works.
2006-09-04 14:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, BEOFRE YOU EXPECT TO GO MEETING SOMEONE NEW, YOU NEED TO DROP OFF YOUR BAGGAGE. BAGGAGE CONTAMINATES ALL FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS. CARRYING BAGGAGE IS LIKE PICKING UP POOP AND PUTTING IT IN YOUR POCKET. IT BEGINS TO STINK AND REPELL OTHERS. BAGGAGE IS COMPLETELY OBVIOUS TO OTHERS, AND IT SCARES PEOPLE AWAY. YOU GIVE YOURSELF AWAY BY CLAIMING TO BE THE VICTIM. SO YOUR HEART IS BROKEN, GET OVER IT. SHE DID YOU A FAVOR BY SETTING YOU FREE TO GROW AND EXPERIENCE OTHERS PEOPLE. THE MORE PEOPLE YOU EXPERIENCE (AND BECOME EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED WITH) THE MORE YOU LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF. WHEN YOU DO FINALLY END UP WITH SOMEONE, YOU CAN HONESLTY SAY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN SOMEONE, AND WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE THEM OF YOURSELF. YOU CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT YOU HAVE BEEN AROND AND EXPERIENCED MANY, AND YOU PICKED THAT PERSON ABOVE ALL OTHERS.
SO QUIT FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND GET YOUT BUTT TO BORDERS OR BARNES & NOBLE. WATCH PEOPLE AND WHAT THEY ARE INTERESTED IN. MAKE IT ABOUT THEM, AND GETTING TO KNOW THEM. AND SIGN UP FOR A FITNESS CLUB MEMBERSHIP. GREAT PLACES TO MEET PEOPLE OR JUST PEOPLE WATCH.
DON'T DATE EXCLUSIVELY AT FIRST, BUT STAY ACTIVELY SOCIAL. TAKE YOUR TIME AND ENJOY BEING SINGLE. EXPERIENCE MANY.
2006-09-04 14:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hell with looking for a chick, finish school first. the last thing you need at 20 is some chick stealing your attention away from your studies.
2006-09-04 14:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to wait at least 6 weeks. I find it hard to believe that she broke ur heart?
2006-09-04 14:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋