This is a really stupid question but I have to ask it. I was talking to my gf of 2 months and she mentioned how she knew this other chick "who was gay buy she didnt know it." Could it mean that she was trying to say she thinks I am gay but I dont know it? lol...I doubt it but its bothering me. I dont know if I should ask her. She is going to probably think its weird because I am pretty sure she didnt mean to say I was gay.
Anyways, should I ask her if she was hinting that she thinks I am gay but I dont know it or are there some questions you jsut should ask your gf?
Btw I am of course straight and homophobic.
2006-09-04 14:21:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would ask her if she thought that and then leave it be dont dwell on it
2006-09-04 14:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship I feel it is so "Important" to always keep those "Communication" lines open!! You've got to talk to her, but, dont say it in an "Insecure" way... Say it in a joking way....Like, hey hun, you said something the other day, that made me think.....oh, I forgot what it was... Something about Gay people.... You know I love you, and how much I like my women, I mean just you, honey.. but were you talking about someone, who's gay, or somethin the other day.. I though I overheard you talkin' along those lines.. Tell me your not thinkin' I could "EVER" be that way!!! Only suggest that part, should she look at you funny, when you ask her about overhearing her talking... Then, when you find out it was all about someone else, all your worries will dissapate, trust me, on this one,...... But, if you two have a really healthy communication life, then their shouldn't be any worries with you coming out and talking to her.... I do want you to know, that, theirs alot of guys out there, who have alot of female hormones, and are not "Gay",... in fact my girlfriend of 30 years married a guy I thought was "gay" when they first met, and so did another friend of ours, and they use to tell me, that their husbands were on the "Feminine" side, but they loved that about them... So, you could bring up what I just said, to her as well, if you want too... Good-Luck, and dont sweat the small stuff.. This too will soon pass..... Smile!!!
2006-09-04 14:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are totally way off base here... I think your gf was trying to feel you out about how you would feel if she told that she was bi, and that she's hinting around for a 3 way with you and the other chic... so yeah... maybe there are some things the two of you need to discuss.
2006-09-04 14:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a woman who rambles on and on most of the day. She could have been just talking about random things going on. Why is it bothering you so much? Only thieves get nervous when the cops pass by. Have a talk with yourself before talking to her. You shouldn't be so disturbed by something that does not pertain to you.
2006-09-04 14:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by denavirgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you homophobic? are you scared you indeed are gay? anyway if you dont think she is hinting why are you asking this question? obviously you think she might be saying you might be gay and you probably are lol...so just ask her if it bothers you so much..
2006-09-04 14:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is hinting around that her friend is gay to see what your reaction is or let you know so she can hint around to you about another person in your sex life that is the only thing i can think of. cause guys these days loves it when another is in on with you and your partner that is the only thing i could think of it's every guys fanasty to see 2 girls together. maybe that isnt your thing but if that is what she is hinting around to then your lucky, if your into that kind of thing i mean. but i would just ask her k.
2006-09-04 14:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she think you are gay and still be with you? That is Crazy!! If anything she feels like she is gay. Thats what it sounds like to me.
2006-09-04 14:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was that such a sensitive comment? If You are heterosexual I can't imagine why your mind went to her thinking you might be gay.
2006-09-04 14:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was probably just trying to either keep the conversation going or she was just telling you something. I tell my guy all the time about things he'd have no interest in..
2006-09-04 14:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol! I dont think that she would be dating you if she thougth that you were gay! I wouldnt worry about it!
2006-09-04 14:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by confusedbuthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go ahead and ask her, That is the only way to clear the air.
2006-09-04 14:25:56 · answer #11 · answered by Oma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋