it hurts so bad after we have sex the tumers put me in alot of pain im on 3 diffrent pain meds i love him so much but im scared to have sex what should i do he says he loves me no matter what but he has needs and im not doing a good job in the sex dept
2006-09-04 14:12:27 · 20 answers · asked by meek1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he leaves you then you didnt need him anyway!!!
2006-09-04 14:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i sure hope not..i mean i got alot of female probs with my uterus like fibroids scare tissue and adenomyosis and chronic pelvic pain so i am in pain all the time and the only way i know its that time of the month is when i am in pain like labor ..so until they figure out what shots i need on the 11th i am stuck with the pain pills i hope u have good luck n he dont leave u....maybe there is some otha things in sex u can do...like oral or tell him what ur problem is and tell him he cant get anything from u its a tumer not a disease..and jst tell him that sometimes it makes u hurt ...maybe if he is easy with u it wont hurt ..
2006-09-04 21:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I sit in my living room counting the days until my doctor gives me the post-surgery all clear, all I can say is if he leaves you he's not worth keeping. I don't know how many times I bawled worrying the same thing until I couldn't cope anymore and opted for surgery. Not only does my man call 3-4 times a day, he's decided to pay for the surgery and he's being as patient as he can about those 'needs'.
2006-09-04 21:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by sheryl m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor. your life is more important than how he feels about you. You life might be at stake. Stop screwing him if it hurts. If he does not understand then you're with the wrong guy. If he cares for you, he will not want to hurt you.
Stop having sex with him and see how long he hangs around. If he loves you no matter what, then he won't mind not getting laid. I doubt he' ll hang around. I'm sorry, but get well. Be happy.
2006-09-04 21:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then he will not like break up w/ u !!!! just because you haf tumers!!! i mean what kind of bf is that!! if he really does love you then he would be rite there w/ you ever second of his life comforting you k??? stop worrying i think you should tell him its not really good to keep things away from your bf ok?? loolol hope things go smoothly w/ you and ur bf!!<3
2006-09-04 21:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by jennyrox12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should understand that u are going threw a rough time right now and be there for you...tell him No more until u get the problem taken care of..... good luck 2 u
2006-09-04 21:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. The tumors can be treated, if he really loves you he will stand by you ... if he doesn't then there is someone else who will.
Just tell the truth and live by it.
Yours;
Jonnie
2006-09-04 21:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jonnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like oral sex?
if you can't please him, he deserves to look for it with somebody else, if you both understand that, the relationship might work anyway. If he does love you no matter what and you are involved, then he will stay anyway.
Its very sad, good luck.
2006-09-04 21:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the boyfriend go to the doctor!
2006-09-04 21:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you, he will stick by your side and if he leaves you, then he really wasn't worth having in the first place. Good luck to you.
2006-09-04 21:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loves you then he won't leave you, he'll more than likley want you to go and see a dr. and you should. if he did leave you, well you have more important things to think about and thats your health. i dont' think that he will leave you though.
2006-09-04 21:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by KORD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋