I've been talking to this guy online for a few weeks, and he's nice.He says nice things, sometimes makes me feel good. He's really into that cybersex stuff,which I don't like but thought I'd give it a try because I never have-embarassing-Anyway,I talked to him about how we always talk about *that* and I didn't really know anything about him.I asked him to share things he was comfortable sharing and I would do the same.I asked him questions,he answered.Problem is,he seems like he's avoiding me.Everytime we talk now,he seems like he's busy doing something else and his answers are always delayed.It's like he's getting tired of me or something.Today,I shared my pic with him,a pic I absolutely HATE but shared because I thought he would be happy about it.I feel so stupid right now,especially for sharing my pic.I don't talk to him that often so it's not like I'm constantly bugging him.Whenever I signed on,he would IM me instantly. now it's just like he doesn't care. Am I dumb for caring?
2006-09-04 13:50:14 · 15 answers · asked by meyouokay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I forgot this was Yahoo and it's hard to find mature people one here.
To be deleted, soon.
2006-09-04 13:58:19 · update #1
You are not dumb for caring. You fell into a trap. This man is only interested in sex. It will be the same way if you ever meet in person. The best thing you can do is click on his name, then go to the bottom of the box where it says "you appear online to this contact". Click on that, then click on the option that says "appear permanetly offline to this contact". Then remove him from your messenger list. This way he will not see when you are online, and you will not have to be reminded of him.
It's time to move on.
2006-09-04 13:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up too much about it, trust in an online relationship is built much quicker than real-world relationships, you probably wouldn't have been so open with a complete stranger if it wasn't for the supposed safety and comfort of online communication.
Just keep this experience as one to learn from and the next time an online "player" wants cybersex tell him "no thank you".
2006-09-04 14:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hun he is only interested in cybersex. that is why u should never talk about things that make u uncomfortable. n if u want 2 weed out the jerks tell them up front I DO NOT CYBER n mean it.
if someone likes u they will like u for u, and if they try 2 get u 2 do things u feel uncomfortable doing then they r not trying 2 be with u only what u can do 4 them.
2006-09-04 13:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this serve as a valuable lesson to you. Why would you allow yourself to become emotionally involved with a perfect stranger whom you have absolutely no idea as to who or what they are. You must be aware of all the dangerous individuals on the Internet.
Come on now...have more confidence in yourself. Surely you have what it takes to relate to the real world. I know you feel bad...and you should.
Dig deep though, and regain your pride and self respect. Let your legacy be to from now on, keep your eyes and ears wide open, love yourself first and "To thine own self be true".
2006-09-04 14:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea for your own safety never give out a pic of yourself like that esp. for cybersex. if thats all you want then go buy a dildo or vibrator or sumthin. it seems like youve got some kind of relationship w. him-which isnt good. DONT DO THAT. BAD IDEA
2006-09-04 13:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by punkrokchickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. And don't worry about the few inconsiderate individuals that tried to make you feel stupid. Chances are, they've done exactly what you did at some point in their online experiences.
2006-09-04 14:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted from you and doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. THats just like a one night stand. They get what they want and you never hear from them again. Don't return phone calls , they just avoid you. Won't answer your IM. Move on.
2006-09-04 13:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are naive for caring. He was just using you, he's not interested in anything except finding online girls to help him jack off. He's probably married. Move on.
2006-09-04 13:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you was his cyber chick is all sad but true dontfeel stupid about the pic of you im sure your a pretty girl feel stupid that you cyberd : / whats the point of it?
2006-09-04 13:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by pro_choice_my_right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋