ok my boyfriend and i have been seeing eachother for about 2 months and he is so worried im gonna cheat on him and i have never or would never do that to him. Could he be worried because hes been cheated on be4. So what should i do plz help
2006-09-04 13:44:55 · 16 answers · asked by Hollagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him why he thinks your going to cheat and see what he says. Remember part of being an a relationship like this is being open and honest.
2006-09-04 13:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes been cheated on before, thats exactly why hes worried. OR, if you have the kind of personality thats very outgoing, and he doesnt, that may be worrying him too. All you can do is keep reassuring him., that you wont cheat.
2006-09-04 20:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seeing as you both been dating each other for only 2 months its gonna take more time for you both to compleatly trust each other. he is worried because he has been cheated on before unfortunitly.
2006-09-04 20:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk him through. Flat out say that you love him and would never do anything to hurt him. Also, if he gets too clingy or jealous, I would just let him go. He obviously has some issues he needs to work out.
2006-09-04 20:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheated on his previous girl friend and worries about that karma!
2006-09-04 20:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is worried because he saw your 360 page where you say that you are LOOKING for a boyfriend in Arkansas...
2006-09-04 20:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he has self confidence and insecurity issues that he needs to deal with, or else he will continue to undermind his relationships. I'd say do your best to convince him to seek some counseling.
2006-09-04 20:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just got dumped by one of those, and can tell you that you are only seeing the tip of the iceburg.
Good luck.. I see pain in your future.
2006-09-04 20:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its most likely hes been cheated on..but theres nothing you can really do xept reassure him that you wont ever do it and convince him with your actions that you will never cheat on him..
2006-09-04 20:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe has some insucrites about the way your acting. so just state ur concens... and be cocmplety honest. poor ur heart out. good luck
2006-09-04 20:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋