i am friends with this guy and i really like him in fact i have never liked a guy this much but he is going out with one of my good friends and i would never do anything to hurt her so i havent acted on my fellings toward the guy... he is honestly the only guy i can talk to and look him straight in the eye and i can be myself around him and not worry about what he thinks......and lately he has been acting like he likes me... but like i said hes going out with a good friend of mine... please help
2006-09-04 13:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by amanda marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay friends with your girlfriend and forget the guy....guys will come and go, honey....you need lifelong friends.
2006-09-04 13:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your friend and the guy breaks up. Face it, all relationships end at some point- even marriages. But most of the time it takes people awhile to find that "special someone". So, after they break up, wait awhile. If the guy asks you out say yes and tell your friend that it is just a cruel, cruel world and some people aren't lucky in life. LOL!!! No dont tell her that b/c then you'll be enemies for life, and you dont want that. Tell her your true feelings about the guy and that you are sorry about their break up. If she is a true friend, she'll be okay with you and him. Now if the guy doesn't ask u out, then flirt with him. If he still doesn't ask you out, then you ask him out. P.S.: WAIT UNTIL YOUR FRIEND IS OVER HER X AND/OR HAS A NEW BOYFRIEND! Be cool!
2006-09-04 20:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by lover boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold up one minute it, Now if this young lady is one of your good friends or even an associate of yours.I don't think her man should appeal to you in any way. I think you should not act on your feeling and don't fall for a trap that could not only hurt you but destroy a friendship. The guy probably knows you like him and like the dogs they are will go after a willing bone but still like your friend more. So take this advice and leave that alone. Also think about this if he is willing for you what about the friends are associates of yours to follow are family for that matter. Sounds like your a little young but grow up on this one and get over it sweetheart.
2006-09-04 20:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by blessings2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 take a step back before something happens that u do not want.
first is the friendship more important than the guy or is the guy more important than the friendship.
since I have a no date policy 2 friends bf's ex's whathave u, I would just ignore my feelings 4 the guy n start looking elsewhere.
2006-09-04 20:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to sever ties with your good friend to pursue a relationship with this guy? She will not feel comfortable staying friends with you if you are dating one of her exes, especially if she has the feeling that you were flirting with him while they were dating (which, let's face it, you kind of are). Also, you might lose some of your other female friends if you were to start dating this guy, because you'd kind of have a reputation as a "boyfriend-stealer." It sucks, and isn't really fair, but it happens.
This guy might be flirting with you because he's insecure about his relationship with your friend. His whole personality could change if you were to start dating. Do you want to be in a relationship with a guy who flirts with other girls?
Come to think of it, are you sure you want a relationship at all? My friends and I have sometimes found ourselves attracted to guys that are "off limits" simply because we feel pressured to be in a relationship. However, deep down, we don't really want one.
My advice - stay away from this guy for a while. Talk to other guys (especially ones that aren't unavailable). Spend time with your single female friends so you don't feel so pressured to date someone. Maybe this guy and your friend will break up, and you can eventually date him, or maybe you will meet someone else who will take your mind off things. But you have to stop obsessing over this guy, or you will seriously endanger your relationship with your friend.
2006-09-04 20:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my so called friends went out with my bf and it really pissed me off. i suggest that u need to forget about him.. I hate that girl now and will never be friends with her again. and if he is going out with other girl he should be flirtin with you. that tells you how he is . but dont ruin ur friendship just cuz of a guy.. there are lots of other guys around
2006-09-04 20:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u want 2 take your friends leftovers find your own meal
friends r much better than guys
2006-09-04 20:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Gurly Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your feelings and ask him what's going on? If he has no intention on leaving this girl and is only flirting with you, then you'd better stop with him; otherwise, YOU will get HURT
2006-09-04 20:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by gloria123445566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never date one of my friends boyfriends..I think that is disrespectful and I care more about my friends then that.
2006-09-04 20:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine_gurl32276 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will come and go, but a good friend will always be there when he is gone...
2006-09-04 20:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋