2006-09-04 13:10:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
YES YES YES YES !!! that person is either insecure or just plain idiot and we dont need them except to train us about people comprendie????
2006-09-04 13:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by ma_2st 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They consider themselves to be better than the person serving them, indicating they are self-centered and egotistical. They put themselves before others. If I see someone act that way, it makes me wonder rif their friendliness towards me is genuine or if they are trying to get something out of it. I don't put a lot of trust into people like that. Waiters/waitresses are usually working hard while you are not, so it is doubly ugly to be rude to them.
If the waiter/waitress is really rude to you, you shouldn't be a doormat, but you can stand up for yourself without being rude back.
2006-09-04 20:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be something in you that makes him nice to you. Are you moneyed or are you someone with influence? I doubt if he wil be nice to you if he sees you working as a waiter. Did you hear the word discrimination?
Or the other thing could be is if he just reacted to a rude services of the waiter/waitress.
2006-09-04 20:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it's possible that they're putting on a front for you to reel you in but showing their real personality to the waiter/waitress that they consider insignificant. Rude people never make good mates.
2006-09-04 21:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by mikailistar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how someone treats a server is a reflection of the truth about them. the rude ones are truly mean and only being false in their niceness towards others. people like this seem to think they are better than others-such as the waitress they are rude to. i used to be a waitress, people like this get cursed in the kitchen every day for their attitude. food service workers dont get paid well enough to put up with that crap. when you hold a job where you get treated this way, it tends to make you a lot nicer. it made me a better tipper. blessed be.
2006-09-04 20:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ravenfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because a genuinely nice person is nice to every one not just the person they're having dinner with. of course he/she would be nice to the person they're having dinner with becuase they're on a date or they care about what that person thinks of them. He/she would be nice to the waiter/waitress just cuz they are a nice person because that's how truly nice people are.
2006-09-04 20:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by blessedrose11208 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is! Someone nice is nice to everyone. A waiter/waitress is not a slave to whom he or she is serving. He or she is an honorable worker, and deserves as much respect as anyone else.
2006-09-04 20:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kazeed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES! THAT TO ME FALLS IN THE CATAGORY OF BEING TWO-FACED. PEOPLE SHOULD EASE UP ON WAITERS/WAITRESS'S THEY WORK HARD FOR THEIR MONEY AND PROBLY HAVE TO DEAL W/ ALOTE MORE JERKS IN A DAY THAN JUST THIS ONE
2006-09-04 20:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by sbound_40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very true. A nice person treats everybody well.
2006-09-05 03:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to be rude to anyone.
If a complaint is justified, then do so without being rude - it gets better results.
AND, who knows, the waiter could spit in your soup or pee in your drink !!
Be firm but polite.
2006-09-04 20:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Froggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that they are not a nice person, it is that they think that everyone is defined by their chosen career and he/she does not rate hospitality very highly in their opinion . wait till this person meets someone who thinks what they do for a living rates on the lowest scale
2006-09-04 20:19:57 · answer #11 · answered by fourplums 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋