My fairly new flat mate is very attractive but seems she is bi, she has asked to have sex with me, I'm quite liberal and I find her attractive should I allow her to have me? I currently do not have a boyfriend, does it mean I'm gay?
2006-09-04 12:49:33 · 26 answers · asked by hipolly69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesnt mean ur gay just means u are willing to try something i new. as far as i know most guys love a girl that is willing to do it with another girl..i say try it out and experiment if u dont like it then at least u know and arent wondering what if....good luck and have fun
2006-09-04 12:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well are you gay or wanting to try bi? ????
if you are wanting to heighten your sexual experience this will do it remember taboo adds to intensity . so it has no merit that your gay or bi as to your enjoyment to the event. But the best thing is to tell your flat mate this is to never be talked about and your not wanting a relationship that if its to ever happen again and that it probly wont its only if you want it .
I hope you think this thru
2006-09-04 13:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean you're gay, you like guys right? It would mean u, like her, are bi. If you find her attractive, and are comfortable with it, go for it (anyone who gives you a negative answer is jealous). Have fun, and be safe about it. Lol, lucky.
2006-09-04 13:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a toughie,...while it may open the doors of bisexuality for you (not a bad thing, for all those times when you don't have a man), it could start a bad precedent for you as flatmates. Don't ever under any circumstances do it when under the influence, ...if you are going to, set guidelines FIRST. You cannot let this impair/change the flatmate relationship. Good luck...
2006-09-04 12:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by longhair140 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to try it do it with someone else because things may get very awkward afterwards and you'll still be sharing the flat.
2006-09-04 13:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it is one thing, following thru with it is another.
Unless you have this deep down desire to act this out, I would leave it alone.
The old saying is " if it looks like a skunk, smells like a skunk, its probably a skunk."
If it looks like shes gay, acts like shes gay, she is probably gay.
Its a tough decison to make because it is a choice of sexual preference. No more, no less. Good luck with your decision
2006-09-04 12:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you and she are mentally disturbed.
The fact she is bi and you are willing says you were both molested. Get some help
I am so sick of people thinking this is okay, It is an illness not a none choice in lifestyle.
its wrong sinful and an obomination before God.
Now all of the hateful people are going to respond to this. It just proves their hateful even when they say they are not. Turn away from your ignorance.
2006-09-04 12:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by inthehouse10k 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Because you dont have a boyfriend it doesnt mean your gay. If you have feelings for woman that means your gay. Have you ever thought about doing it before?
2006-09-04 12:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if your interested, then try it. It may mean your a bi if you like it. Just dont eat her out the first time. Let he dazzle you first and maybe you'll want to try it later.. Lucky you
2006-09-04 13:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. yea if u are sleeping with other women u are a lesbian. So since u are, mise well go for it if u think it will lead to a real realtionship. otherwise if not and its just for the sex... why get used? or chances of std's???
2006-09-04 12:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Skye 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋