Help!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 12:39:22 · 27 answers · asked by philip_29_us 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that's awsome. God will reward you with someone that you'll love more than you've ever loved anyone before. Except perhaps God.
2006-09-04 12:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by yuna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so I actually think it's kinda cool. The only thing is now a days women want a man who can make her do things say things and experience things through sex that is sometimes un-heard of, and if you are a virgin it might make a women feel that you are a little inexperienced, and that she would have to teach you everything. Now that maybe a very good thing or for an experienced women it could be a very bad thing. It's ok to be a virgin, but read some books watch some videos, and make sure you are ready to cross boundaries to the point of no return when you do have sex. Good luck.
2006-09-04 19:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't listen to the bad comments that get posted. Secondly, you are not a loser. You just haven't found the right on yet. You will find her. Just hang in there. Don't rush into anything you will regret. Seriously, I wish I had waited longer. I regret the some of the people I have slept with. Be proud of who you are and not just having sex with just anyone like alot of others have.
2006-09-04 19:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not a loser but maybe there are some issues that have contributed to your remaining a virgin so much longer than most people. Maybe you should talk it through with a therapist and get their opinion. With girls as aggressive as they are these days it's amazing that you're still a virgin. Perhaps you just don't like girls and that's okay but figure it out because you're missing out on one of life's greatest pleasures.
2006-09-04 19:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry but asking this question is probably going to get u some insulting responses. it seems kind of pathetic like u are advertising so that u wont be one. all i can say is that if u have strong reasons for being a virigin then no its not lame but if you have tried and just can't get any then maybe you want to examine what it is about u that turns women off. not just physical but mental too. be more confident and learn to be less socially inept and you'll have better luck
2006-09-04 19:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by TR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may not be a loser, but you ain't a winner either. Sex conquests do not define the man (or the woman). Why are you a virgin? Do you have no interest in sex? IF you do and you are doing a constant whack job, you may be in a place that is going to be very difficult to get out of....That is a long time to be used to doing yourself...Good luck
2006-09-04 19:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
loser? no, but you should get going, there are connections beyond sex that you are not experiencing. Like intimacy and companionship. There is much more to sex than the physical touch, like connecting on an emotional level and giving all of yourself. It is a connection that if goes starved...well, you become a little weird.
2006-09-04 19:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not feel like a total loser That is YOUR body and should have sex when YOU feel you are ready. Congrats and Good luck. Remember wait until YOU are ready.
2006-09-04 19:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't need help. You need some new brains and obviously a new head will do too. A loser, a virgin, what else is in your mind -- all b.s. get on with life..you still have 70 yrs. to go to enjoy it all. Good luck and i know you need it -- so take it.
2006-09-04 19:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My friend is an absolutely great looking 34 year old woman. Because of her personal ethics, she's saving herself for marriage (which is coming up on October). So, no you're not the only one. ...but don't let that stop you from trying if you're so inclined.
2006-09-04 19:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feell like your a looser until you get trapped into getting someone pregnant if your a man...then GAME OVER YOUR LOST!
If your a woman, good for you, your a gem amongst old rusty cans that have spent many years being kicked around by man after man
2006-09-04 19:42:51 · answer #11 · answered by dyno_bot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋