okay last year my momo found out about this deep secret of mine that i had with my friend and my mom was so shocked and my mom started to hate my best friend cuz of it now she moved me to a different school cuz shez just hates it whenever it comes up my mom just hates my school so she moved me????????
2006-09-04 12:35:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are many reasons mothers do things like this. If you were a little more elaborate on the situation i could better help you.
My advice to you is to sit down and talk to your mother about the situation, if she still doesn't understand get a job and move out. Depending on what the whole move was about maybe she did it to help protect you. If there is no logical reason for your mom to hate you friends just tell her they are my friends and friends stick together so nothg ou do is going to keep me from them. Hope this helps a little.
2006-09-04 12:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard when a parent does not like your friends. moving you to a new school is not going to help much its just geography. what is your moms beef with your friends, have you changed? Are you dressing differently. how about the way you act around your mom. just how bad was the big secret. what did you do? how are you going to change yourself . you are a young adult and must start thinking about what you do and how it affects the people around you. it is not easy to be a kid and have to follow the rules that parents set up for you but as an adult there are even more rules to follow and you will not have mom there to make it right. you have to chose which way to go up or down, left ot right, good or bad. and only you can make that choice and suffer the fall out from it.
2006-09-04 12:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by basque girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI DEAR,
TRY TO FIND WHY SHE HATES HIM ?
TRY TO PUT YOURSELF IN YOU MOMS POSITION AND THINK LIKE YOU ARE A MOM AND YOU DAUGHTER IS DOING THE SAME STUFF CAN YOU JUSTIFY IT, IF YOU CAN THEN IT'S OK IF YOU CANT THEN IT WILL ALSO ADDS A GUILTY CONSCIOUS TO YOU. I THINK YOU WILL FIND THE ANSWER, I AN NOT SAYING THAT YOU ARE DOING ANY THING WRONG BUT YOU ARE THE BEST PERSON TO JUDGE YOURSELF.
DEAR I CAN ONLY SAY THAT ENJOY LIFE BUT ALWAYS GIVE YOURSELF A SATISFACTORY REASON FOR EVERY ACTION OF YOURS, IF YOU DO THIS THEN YOU WILL FIND YOU HAVE VERY FEW ADDICTIONS.
BYE SWEET LADY,
TAKE CARE.
2006-09-04 12:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by deep_desire79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should be your best friend because she loves you and knows whats best for you. How does she know? Because she is older than you and knows more about life than you and knows how little things can grow into big ugly things. If she doesn't like your friends it's for a good reason, so it's time to get new friends.
2006-09-04 12:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand why your Mom feels this way, then address those issues. Make her understand that her feelings might be justified, however your feelings are just as important. Try to get her to a place where she might "see it through your eyes" After all, she was in your position once!!
2006-09-04 13:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Robert D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask your mother about the dislike.
Your mother has experience with life and she may assumed a threat toward you.
Someday you will be a parent and you child is going to think you don't know a damn thing, also!
2006-09-04 12:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by tmcs1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all ... it depends on the secret
2nd of all... she moved u cause she didnt want u 2 b around that friend (if it was rele bad)
3rd of all... if it was rele bad then u need 2 talk 2 her bout it... let her get her anger out
2006-09-04 12:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD ASK HER TO EXPLAN WHY AHE HATES YOUR FRIENDS, AND LISTEN TO HER WITHOUT DEFENDING THEM. THAN I WOULD TRY TO WALK IN YOUR MOM'S SHOES, AND SEE IT HER WAY. YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND AT THAT POINT, BUT IF NOT, THEN ASK YOURSELF WHY YOU CANNOT SEE BEYOND YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE. SHE MAY HAVE A VALID REASON., OR IT MIGHT JUST BE SOMETHING DUMB. GIVE HER A CHANCE. SHE'S YOUR MOM AND SHE LOVES YOU....
2006-09-04 12:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must have been very bad, for your mom to do something like change your school. you are lucky to have such a caring mom.
2006-09-06 22:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the secret?
2006-09-04 12:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ashley♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋