i have been friends with this girl next door for about two years and we have been spending alot of time with each other lately. i would like to turn our friendship into a relationship now. but i dont know how to go about doig this . i have all ways had long term relationships in the past. so i am not very good with starting relationships has i have not had to do much asking girls out .please help me .(serious answers only)
2006-09-04 12:34:28 · 20 answers · asked by p.smithy0108 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel then, Ask her out, asking if she feels the same and is interested in elevating your relationship to the next level. Don't be afraid of a No. You need to risk a No to get a Yes. Asking her out is the best way to get an official relationship going, but see first if she feels the same way. You can either give it a little more time and look for signals that indicate her interest, or just be bold and get to the point and ask her out.
2006-09-04 12:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. She'll either say yes or know. If it effects your relationship with her if she does say no then she wasn't a great friend in the first place. Seize the moment, people who wait for things to happen and don't make things happen never get what they want.
2006-09-04 12:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by thelivinglegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should plan a special date that signifies the starting of a romantic relationship. Let her know how much you value your friendship and how you don't want to spoil it. Tell her she is so special to you that you want to take it further and to court her not just smudge the lines of friendship into kissing and intimacy. Just take it one date at a time.
2006-09-04 12:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to get to know and love yourself, you will then determine whether or not you are stable enough to enter in a relationship. In order to be one with someone, you need to be whole on your own. Read the following short check off list and see whether or not you have what it takes to have and keep a healthy relationship.
2006-09-04 12:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way to go about it is to just talk to her like normal and just lead the conversation that way by saying "............, given the chance would you go out with me?"
she what she says, and if its a yes well continue talking like normal and then just ask her and just tell her that even if it doesn't work out that you dont want to ruin a good friendship as maybe she aint ready to take that leap.
I hope that helps.
Best of luck, keep me posted,
2006-09-04 12:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is already developing...so let it develop more. No need to force anything too fast. When things are right for her, she will also let you know and she'll take the first step. Be a gentleman.
2006-09-04 12:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by schnikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some signals and see how she responds... little touches on her arm while you're talking to her, holding a look just a second too long, that sort of thing.
If she responds, kiss her you fool!
2006-09-04 12:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go somewhere that most girls like, grab her hand, if she does't get mad or shake her hand away, then would be the time to ask her to be "more than friends"
2006-09-04 12:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think your feelings for her have changed and that you find her attractive and want to make a go of being boyf/girlf.
2006-09-04 12:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go for a walk. While walking take hold of her hand. If she reciprocates, its all up hill from there.
2006-09-04 12:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋