This girl i fancy is in love with another guy who is also my bestfriend. He dosent want to give her up so how to make the girl hate him and leave him?
2006-09-04 12:05:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be patient. If you do something to cause the breakup, it will get very nasty. Eventually, her friends will put it together that you sabotaged her relationship for your own gain, ant the whole thing will blow up in your face.
The best thing to do is to stick by your best friend, respect the relationship he has with his girlfriend, and wait for them to break-up on their own.
It also wouldn't hurt to find another girl. Girls tend to be attracted to men who are spoken for. Perhaps you can inspire a little jealousy, and indirectly lead to the breakup you are hoping for.
2006-09-04 12:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by breauxbridge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to break them up it will just make you look bad. If you really like her then just remain their friends and maybe they will break up. However, you have to understand that if you go after your friend's girl you are probably not going to be friends with him and are you willing to end a friendship over a girl that may not last. Also, chances are you are already off limits the second the two of them started dating because most girls will not date friends. If she does then she could do it to you and you don't want the trouble. Try to find another girl to like, maybe you will find that you only like her because you can't have her or you see how happy your best friend is with her so you naturally are jealous and want that for yourself. It may not be that you want her but you want what she represents for you friend. Either way, if you try to break them up to have her it is just going to end bad so I would try to move on.
2006-09-04 12:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force somebody to love you if they never love you before. If you are going to such thing to your good friend, at the end of the day you may lose both the girl and your best friend is it worth it. If you really love someone, you always wish her happiness whether she chooses you or somebody else. I think in your case you are more of possessive rather love, this is not healthy in a relationship coz in future both of you may have more argument than loving moments. So if you really love he, wish her total happiness with your friend.
2006-09-04 13:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called yourself a friend? Forced love is not true love dude! You fancy the girl but she might not fancy you. So why hurt each and everyone with your stupid and selfish thinking?
2006-09-04 18:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a form of black magic and it will come back to you and bite you in the backside. If you were with her would you want someone doing that to you? You are supposed to be this guy's best friend. Is that being fair to him? Go on with your life and meet someone else. If it is meant to be then it will. In the meantime stop trying to break them up. Be a friend.
2006-09-04 12:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you shouldn't want to trick her into lovin you. You won't gain anything from making her hate him. B/c the topic of you and her convo would be how she hates him and you still wouldn't be getting the attention you think you should be getting. Be yourself and a friend to both and if she want to be with you, then she will be with you for you and not from some scheme you pulled to MAKE her love you. Besides, if she doesn't want you - it's her loss.
2006-09-04 12:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by nattabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook him up in a fight that he can't win. Then you play hero in front of the girl and beat up the other guy. And always talk to her in a way where she knows you like her, but don't try too hard.
2006-09-04 12:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Walter K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ******* stupid? If you really like her and she really likes him and you do that.... you will break her heart while breaking them up!!! Just be patient and wait. If she dont like you then all you can do is act like its all kool but dont stop being friends with her. plus if that guy she is with is your best friend...why would you do that to him? I always say ill choose family over friends but friends over guys. Maybe you should try that. but girls instead of guys. I hope that it all works out for you!!!!! remember just be kool with whatever that happens. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-09-04 12:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him good and drunk, take him to a strip club and get some photos of him with his face between some knockers, charge the whole night to his credit card. That should get her teed off
2006-09-04 12:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by chetahbill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a situation that is closely simmilar. cept i'm a girl. i decided that if God wants me to be with this guy, then it will happen, however, from now on i'm just gonna be a sweet, loving, girl, and hopefully he'll notice me. i suggest you do the same.
2006-09-04 12:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋