been talkin to this girl for about 2 months or so. During these 2 weeks we kept talking daily for hours!
Unfortunatrely last time we went out.... something was missing and we both knew it. We both dont know whats missing and its really bothering me.
I really wish not to loose her... she doesnt bother me but i just dont know what to talk about with her any more!!
Any opinions??
2006-09-04 11:54:57 · 12 answers · asked by Fisherman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you dont want to lose her, then find some interesting things to do, other than talk. Maybe you talk too much. There is always something to share, tell her about your day or something, shorten the conversations and only have long ones every now and again. You cant talk to someone for hours all the time, that is in the begining stages of getting to know one another, it wont always be like that. Go see a live band together or go dancing or something....U dont need to talk so much to do those things!
2006-09-04 12:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm inclined to wonder whether all this dirty talk over the last few weeks is the issue. For these reasons.
a, You haven't gone that far physically and now you feel awkward having discussed it there is pressure to do it
b, having talked dirty you just feel awkward around each other
c, all that dirty talk was so good normal conversation seems dull compared.
You have to look at whats changed in your relationship recently hence why I thought it was maybe the change in conversation topic.
Try asking her to a concert or something, that would get you talking about music then just take it from there. Shared events and interest are the basic talking points..
Just keep at it and don't give up, things take time and hard work. I hope things work out. Good luck
2006-09-04 12:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me you have to find things that you guys share in common. Go out and do fun things that maybe don't require talking. Bowling, movies, anything fun. Sometimes we put too much pressure on clicking with people and then we kinda freeze. Lighten up the mood a little. By going out in a group you can also help the flow.
2006-09-04 11:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by isa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont talk on the phone everyday. talk to her for a couple of minutes and thats it. dotn call her day by day. lets do this call her on monday and tuesday and talk for a couple of minutes nor hours minutes wed,and thurs dont call her at all or if you must call her jus to say hello then on friday when you guys hang out you'll have alot of thi ngs to say because you havent wasted the whole conversation with her on the pho ne. get it?
2006-09-04 12:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think what you're missing is the chemistry.
Someone can look like you want, have the same interests or hobbies, have a great personality... but if there's no chemistry, it just doesn't work.
2006-09-04 11:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Then try again. Sometimes it takes awhile for things to happen.
Good luck =]
2006-09-04 11:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the chemistry just isn't there...move on
2006-09-04 11:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop having long conversations on the phone - so you have something to talk about when you see her!
2006-09-04 11:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try sex. It will give you a whole new topic for conversation. And it doesn't even require any words!
2006-09-04 12:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're crazy
here's what you do:
go to a mental hospital, get help
maybe get freaky with crazy chicks
peace and who knows, maybe you'll end up with a crazy baby
USE PROTECTION!!!
2006-09-04 11:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋