Me and this boy used to date and then we broke up because of his mom. It only lasted for two weeks. Now his cousin is trying to talk to me and he saids its wrong because we were together first.
2006-09-04 11:25:33 · 29 answers · asked by Dora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be wrong to have a threesome with the 2 of them but talking is ok
2006-09-04 11:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and the cousin. Is the cousin related by blood or marriage? Technically it is a little taboo, but if you only lasted two weeks with the ex then it couldn't have been that serious and it should be okay. Tell the ex to mind is own business, you two are not a couple anymore.
2006-09-04 11:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its unfortunate that his mother came between the two of you. I think that's wrong. He is only saying that because he likes you and doesn't want you to be with anyone else. He can't be with you so he is trying to put a guilt trip on you.
Its not wrong to get involved with anyone else, even if it is his cousin. You can talk to whomever you want, and if it turns out that it becomes serious, so be it. If you yourself feel uncomfortable talking with his cousin, then that's different. But go with what you feel is right.
2006-09-04 11:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. If you were only together for two weeks, that wasn't a real relationship. The problem is that that boy must still like you if he doesn't want you to date his cousin. But you need to explain to him that it was due to his mother that you can't date him anymore. Then it's up to him to convince his mother, or let you date his cousin.
2006-09-04 11:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, There's Nothing Wrong With Talking To Anyone.
2006-09-04 11:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by skettopolis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this by expierence. While I didn't fall for my ex-girlfriends cousin I feel for her friend. It will be hard in the beginning don't let your ex hold you back from the one who just may be the love of your life. That is wrong of him to ask that of you. Go for it GIRL! Over time your ex will just accept it when he finds someone else.
2006-09-04 11:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by mtjs06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before and I say follow your heart...if you really like the cousin go out with the cousin but if you feel like in the back of your mind you'd feel funny about it find someone else. Don't worry about labels...or being misjudged. It's your decision and don't worry about what people might say...they're always saying something!...good luck and hopefully whatever decision you make, it makes you happy.
2006-09-04 11:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by FragrantFlower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that... not like u 2 were together really long, and its his cousin, not his brother or something... don't let a past relationship control ur life, if this guy is trying to talk to u and stuff talk back!!
2006-09-04 11:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no its not wrong.. Even if you and him start dating.
I have always talked to my ex`s family and friends after breaking-up.
And 2 weeks of being with someone is hardly a "relationship."
Go for it!!
2006-09-04 11:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by brock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex-boyfriend was too weak to stand up to mommy, I wouldn't put much faith in what he has to say.
Date the cousin. Maybe had has more balls than the ex...
2006-09-04 11:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋