im gay ive been ou tof the closet for a couple of years but i havnt told my parents yet.
2006-09-04 11:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by saru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
from a gay guy i would like an answer as to how he came out to his parents, girls i like that your so caring and wanting to answer but your really no help in this situation.
2006-09-04 11:24:38 · update #1
im pretty sure they know, but its just so hard to bring up with my family, we barely acknowlage genetalia
2006-09-04 11:25:55 · update #2
once again a boy a person who has both a penis and tescticles and when making the decsision on which door to go into would choose the one that gentlemen oppose to the one that said ladies. some one with an x and a y chromosome. and prefurably one who enjoys sex win a man! is the person(s) i would like to answer this goddamn question!
2006-09-04 12:01:31 · update #3
LOL!! Every single person who has answered this question is female!!! ROFLOL!!!!!!!
Anyways - I'm female, too - so maybe I shouldn't answer. But I'm the mother of a 16-year-old boy so maybe my input will help? I'd say that they probably know already. If they haven't asked, then maybe that means they won't be comfortable hearing it. If you're not too impatient, and wait for your mother to ask you, things might go much more smoothly. In the meantime, just be tactful and discrete and try not to give them a bigger bite than they can swallow.
2006-09-04 11:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit them down and be honest about it. Don't sport that guilty look or make them feel like you have bad news for them. If you act like it's a bad thing, they're going to feel like it's a bad thing. Depending on how old your parents are, they may surprise you with their reaction. They're not going to like it, but they shouldn't freak out about it, either.
I don't know that you need to tell them your sexual orientation unless you're in a steady or committed relationship with someone. If you are, tell them soon so they can get used to the idea before they meet him.
2006-09-04 18:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your parents. Funny knew one guy who wanted his parent to know he was gay by playing Judy Garland records all day lol the funny bit was his mother never got the message lol.
2006-09-04 18:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know hard to say when u dont know what kind of people they r i would say just tell them.it takes all sorts to make the world go round its not like its dirty or a crime to b gay good luck
2006-09-04 18:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get them together on the couch and say "Mom, Dad, I'm gay." That's it.
2006-09-04 18:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them.it'll be rough at irst but they're your parent.they'll understand.they love you no matter what.
2006-09-04 18:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIT THEM DOWN AND TELL THEM BECASE THAT STILL LOVE
YOU AND THAY NEED TO KNOW
2006-09-04 18:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will your parents take it?
2006-09-04 18:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them down and spill it - they love you
2006-09-04 18:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋