okay alot of guys i liked liked me back,but what drives me nuts is that they act like they like you: like flirt with you only,talk to you all the time,sometimes even call you,& ask you to hang out & stuff.but a few days after they do those things they ignore you: like thier not the first ones to say hi anymore or they dont talk to you at all,or when your in a group & your talking to the group hes the one that leaves.its like a pattern they like you,then dont,then they do,then they dont its sooooo annoying can anyone help me like how to turn the tables on them??
2006-09-04 09:43:06 · 19 answers · asked by cocobeachsurfchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys are jerks. It's not worth bothering with them. Find someone who doesn't treat you like that.
2006-09-04 09:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha! Yeah, find a guy that really likes you and stick too him and stop trying to get with those losers. Or you can cut your losses and only flirt back and don't go any further like meeting them you know get them all flirted up and when they ask you out say yeah but don't show up and when they see you talking and come up to talk too you or the other person leave and ignore them or hey do both only date a guy from another school as to not build a bad rep.
Or you could try the better plan of mine get your head in the books and leave the boys alone that is trouble that you dealing with designed to break you down.
2006-09-04 09:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are @ss's, sounds like those are the guys you're meeting.It really depends on how you present yourself, I mean, if you're respectable, then they're probably jerks, or just don't share the same interests. But if you do things that you shouldnt, you might have a rep, and that may be why they're walking away. Lol, hang in there, someone will want to hang out with you, you're probably gonna hate me for saying this, but try and be patient. Best of Luck.
2006-09-04 09:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's really no single answer. They might be doing it to impress their friends, they feel on and off about you, or they just like to flirt. If you want to turn the tables, then just ignore them! Be mildly friendly but don't act like you're falling for them. And this is also good because if they start acting cold, it will hurt you a lot less.
And remember, it's not just guys who are mean flirts.
2006-09-04 09:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dating world is a tough one, and you have to meet alot of frogs to find your prince. I say as soon as a guy ignores you, leave. Do not say goodbye, you don't have to because they never said hello. If they did say hello then ignored you, grab your coat and purse and quickly say as you walk out, "You are obviously too busy with what you are doing here, see ya."
Then leave. Dump him, do not let any man treat you like you are not of value. I have heard it said over and over again, A man will treat you like he treats his mother, so watch for it." You deserve so much better than that, don't settle for less.
2006-09-04 09:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha Don't worry a lot of your female peers already are doing the same to guys. It's just that some guys are better at turning the tables on you all than others.
2006-09-04 09:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes immature....if he actually really liked u then he would be with u or try to give a hint that he wants to be ure boyfriend....i hate guys like that....just because they like u doesn't mean that they have to be embarrassed to be with u around other people that just tells u right there that he doesn't actually really like u....some guys are real jerks...don't get with one of them...be with a guy that likes u for who u are...good luck on this situation hope everything turns out good!
2006-09-04 09:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by becca21605 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seem that you are flirty back and then when you are alone you clam up or act standoffish. like your one way on the phone and before its a alone with him moment. so the only thing that is in common with all of these is you so its not a bad thing but you need to be consistant. if a girl is all happyto see me and flirty and then we hang out and she is different i get the feeling that she is just flirty and didnt actually like me in a dating way and just went out so that i wouldnt feel bad. so act like you like them when you are alone or dont go out.
2006-09-04 09:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like junior high or high school to me - it's a part of growing up. Learning this now will help you make better decisions later - when it really matters!
2006-09-04 09:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz they are jerks, u should ignore him too, and act like he doesn't mean anything to you. you have to turn the tables around hun.
2006-09-04 09:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋