Am I a fast, easy whore for this?

Question

I was single for a LONG time, & I met this guy through MySpace. I talked to him on the phone & IMed him. Today, we met in person for the 1st time, & we had a nice day at the park. Was I wrong for tongue kissing him on the 1st date? I hope he stays with me & that we stay monogamous.

Answer 1

I wouldn't have thought so, but that fact that you are worrying isn't good. Take things at your pace, don't rush :D

Answer 2

You better hope because survey says that when a guy got easy access to your body or tongue on the first date then he thinks your easy and cheap.Now forget about survey and listin to me, you right for hoping that he calls you back but what you do is just tell him upfront that you were goin through a stage that's all.Or if he does ask you out again NO MORE TONGUE KISSING just a little peck is good.
now girl know you can do this so don't put yo self below a guy because it's been so long because if you do this right he will be beggin just t see you
You go girl

Answer 3

A kiss is a kiss with or without tongue. That in itself makes you no whore... I know you've been alone a long time but don't let that make you think there is more to the relationship than there is. In other words...don't try so hard.

Remember a man will french kiss a cobra if he could figure out how to do it without getting bit. Don't think because he kissed you back, that it's anything else. SLOW Down before your expectations leave you hurting and lonlier than before.

Answer 4

to stay monogamous is a tough thing sometimes. Talk to your partner fist, before having intercourse. Tell him how important it is for you to remain faithful, and to have that same responsibility from him. Waiting for a long time will sometimes give you the idea whether or not the man you want to see will be faithful.

most importantly, have fun. Sex is not the basis for a relationship - nor is kissing. Enjoy each other's company before moving forward... that's the best assurance.

Answer 5

Making out with a guy on a first date doesn't make you a fast, easy, whore. Sleeping with him on the first date would. If you've been talking to him, even if not in person, then you've established some sort of a relationship with him. I don't think kissing him was wrong. I do want to caution you to take it slow and not get your hopes up, but that's only because I'm a fellow woman and want my sistahs to be safe. :)

Answer 6

I don't think your encounter in the park was anything too risque, but for safety's sake you really should make sure you know a bit more about anyone that you meet online before you meet them IRL. Online relationships all to quickly and easily build trust in people we really know nothing about other than what they published about themselves on a website or the nice things they say in a chatroom. But, I guess since you lived to tell the tale so he must be safe enough for a first date. Best of luck to you.

Answer 7

I think in this day and age, you should really take your time and get to know a person before being intimate with them. Maybe a nice peck on the cheek would've been better for someone you really don't know that much about. But at least you didn't have sex on the first date. Think with your mind and not your body. Good luck!

Answer 8

The fact that you are "second guessing yourself" on this says a lot! There's an old saying: "When in doubt, DON'T!" I wouldn't go so far as to say you're "a fast, easy whore" (for one thing, I don't KNOW you!). But I WOULD question the "wisdom" of getting together with someone in the first place off of such a disgusting and devilish sight as "MySpace"! I have NO USE for a sight that is run by the PORN INDUSTRY ("Hookers.com".....my brother found that out from Law Enforcement Officers conducting an "Internet Safety" course he went to!). It is a FACT that "MySpace" is a BREEDING GROUND for perverts and child molestors! There is a site called "The Dead Kids of MySpace" that EVERYONE should see! There is also a link to a site that lists ALL of the REGISTERED SEX OFFENDERS that pose as teen-aged boys on there in order to lure unsuspecting girls into their SELFISH FILTHY ARMS AND HOMES! My 16 Year Old daughter and her best friend got suckered by some guys in their 20's SIX AND A HALF HOURS AWAY that she'd been chatting with on "MySpace"! (I have no control over the situation; she lives with her mother & we're divorced!) Thank God, the FBI found them BEFORE anything happened! That site is DANGEROUS AND DEVILISH, and young lady, I think you and ALL girls are VERY foolish messin with "MySpace"! YOU ARE JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE! My brother was told of girls who've been RAPED AND MURDERED through "MySpace", and my point is, even though you're NOT "a teenager", you're STILL emotionally vulnerable and also NAIVE about the TRUE nature of sites like
"MySpace". I wouldn't trust ANY guy who's on that site! But the OTHER thing I'd point out is this: Maybe you DID like the guy (you must've since you let him kiss you like that, right?). But I think you're letting YOUR HOREMONES over ride your better judgment! I believe you ARE giving a guy you kiss like that THE FIRST TIME you meet the impression that you ARE "fast and loose"! A man needs to have RESPECT for a woman he's interested in and TREAT HER HONOURABLY! I know that just about EVERYONE who answers this question will tell you, "NAH! IT'S PERFECTLY FINE WHAT YOU DID!" But don't believe them! Think about it: YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THE GUY! And I don't care HOW LONG you've been "chatting on MySpace". THE INTERNET IS A VERY DECEPTIVE PLACE! PEOPLE LIE A LOT ON THOSE "SOCIAL NETWORKING/DATING SITES!" And keep something ELSE in mind: MEN ARE DECEPTIVE LIARS BY NATURE! Most guys are NOT honourable, and they'll just "tell you what you wanna hear" so they can "get what THEY want". And you KNOW what that is! My advise to you: DUMP HIM, STOP MESSIN WITH MYSPACE, AND WAIT ON GOD TO SEND YOU YOUR HUSBAND! Oh, and that means YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE YOUR HEART IS RIGHT WITH GOD IN ORDER TO HEAR FROM HIM! So, my final question to you is: ARE YOU SAVED FROM YOUR SINS BY JESUS CHRIST? That is the MOST important issue! HE is your "Mr.Right", and if you FOLLOW HIM, you WON'T go wrong! Like getting hooked up with some "USER"! You need a REAL MAN who will LOVE YOU! God has someone for you, IF YOU'LL SEEK HIM FIRST! God bless you! (Read Genesis 1-3; Exodus 20:1-17: John 1-3; and Romans 1-3 in the KING JAMES BIBLE!)

Answer 9

only tongue kiss him? once? lots of times? was it once but didn't come up for air for an hour? either way no not a whore, just fun, doesn't mean anything more then that unless YOU want it too

Answer 10

no not for a little french kiss. if you had slept with him and then same day slept with his friend he introduced you to then yeah slutty but a little french kiss is not even near whorish have fun and yeah monogamous is very good.

Answer 11

Lots of one night/day stands end up in a relationships. Don't stress it. There is nothing wrong with getting it on with someone you're attacted to.
If its to be, then it will be.