My bf does not get along with any of my friends or family members at all. He hates my best friend and hates my closes older sister. I can not do anything with them at all. I feel like a animal who can not do anything? What should i do?
2006-09-04 09:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by Laney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best advice would be to Leave Him!
That's the only thing that you can do, if he doesn't let you see your friends or family you are so much better off without him!
You deserve so much better!
You can find another guy who will treat you like a princess that you are :)
Get rid of him and take some time for yourself, be good to yourself, get your nails done, haircut, take a nice bath go shopping and enjoy your single time :)
He sounds very controlling you are definitely better off without him!
i wish you the best of luck hun!
God Bless You!
PTL *praise the Lord*
Jane.
2006-09-04 09:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!!! NOW!!!!!!!! It won't be long before he can't stand you, either. That's when the verbal abuse will start. Then the pushing and shoving. Next, he's going to hit you. An abuser's M.O. is usually first to isolate you from your friends and family. It's about control.
You're definitely not compatible. The friends you pick say much about you. If he hates them, he musn't have much in common with them. Therefore you and he don't have much in common, either. By the way, how do you feel about his friends and family?
You need to find someone else who gets along with your friends and family. You'll be at peace knowing that you and he can visit your friends and family and have an enjoyable time.
2006-09-04 09:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SUPPOSE YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE HE CAN FIND THAT WILL CONTINUE TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR. HE HAS YOU WRAPPED AROUND HIS FINGER SO TIGHT, HE IS UNWILLING TO LET YOU SEE YOUR OWN FAMILY? IF THAT ISN'T CONTROLLING, I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS.
HE ONLY DOES THIS BECAUSE HE HAS SUCH LOW SELF ESTEEM. HE FEELS LIKE HE NEEDS TO CONTROL AND MANIPULATE YOU SO HE CAN FEEL MORE POWERFUL.
YOU ARE FEELING IT. YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. KICK HIM TO THE CURB AND FIND A NEW GUY.
FIND A NEW GUY WHO MAKES FRIENDS WITH YOUR FAMILY. A GUY WHO IS SUPPORTIVE YOU YOU AND PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU. A GUY WHO IS SO GOOD TO YOU THAT YOU WILL WANT TO SHOW HIM OFF AND BRAG TO ALL YOUR FRIENDS.
WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR GUY TO OTHERS, YOU SHOULD KNOW IT IS OVER.
GET A MOVE ON, GIRL, AND ACCEPT NO CRAP FROM ANYONE.
2006-09-04 09:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry a$$!!! If he cant respect ur relationships then he has no need to be with u. He dosn't contral who u hang out with!!!
2006-09-04 09:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋