i met this guy last year (i was a freshmen he was a sophmore) we had 2 classes together and were in the same lunch. we became good friends really fast. we always talk online
i started liking him as more than a friend a couple months ago
we've hung out together with some of r friends and always had a good time
sometimes when i look at him i catch him staring at me and he quickly looks away
ive talked to some of his friends, but they don't know if he likes me
i know he used to like this girl, but nothing ever came of it and he says he doesnt like her anymore
we are both wicked mad cuz we're not in any of the same classes so dont see each other as much. he decided he was gunna randomly come find during school (misses me???)
anyways i really like him and i want to ask him out. hes really nice to me and has a great personality (and isnt that bad looking either!)
but i dont know if he feels the same way about me???????? how can i find out?????
2006-09-04 08:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might know that i like him
im not sure though
2006-09-04 08:52:29 · update #1
just ask him. seriously. please. by the way youre talking about him its plain to see you genuinely like him and you wouldnt regret it if you ended up together, so just do it. trust me, you dont want to let him just pass you by cos you'll definately regret it later.
its good youre going for the nice guy and not a badass. ive gone out with way too many oversexed emotionless jerks and they all end up being disappointing. cos while they look nice on the outside, on the inside they're really just lame and boring. but if you have a good time with this guy and he's kind to you and you enjoy being around him, just do it. just be like "look, this is totally out of nowhere but what do you think of me? do you like me as more than just a friend? could you ever?" and go from there.
it's that easy. and like i said, sometimes it really is 'now or never'... if he says no, then at least you'll have your answer and you can rest easy. it's better to know than live life wondering what could have been. do it!! you only live once!
2006-09-04 09:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by mica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
Its not a crime, not a sin and the worst thing that could happen is that he will say no. In which case you will feel bad for a couple of days and get over it and find someone better. Which is better than wasting a life time wondering about it.
Besides just a yes or no is just the beginning, as only after some time you will know for sure how serious he is about you, so you have to start somewhere.
2006-09-04 16:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by kevinrtx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are really good friends right??? then walk up to him one day and say something like "hey i was thinking of going over to "whatever" for a soda, or lunch or whatever wanna join me?" if he follows he most likly likes you a lot. when you get there just happen to mention to him in a kidding kinda girly way that your starting to fall for him like.. "hehe you know you better be careful i may just end up falling for you"
2006-09-04 15:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances of finding such kind of love in life is very rare utilize this opportunity and ask him out yourself I suppose you will get a positive response
2006-09-04 15:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know you should ask him, but remember if you don't like the answer he gives you, you can't get mad, because sometimes the truth hurts.
2006-09-04 15:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by swilliams63@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defiently ask him out. If you guys are friends now than you can still be friends after going out.
2006-09-04 15:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Phat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me..You'll know when the connection between you two is unbearable and undescribing.
2006-09-04 15:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here the best thing is to ask him. as soon az U can. and directly. time is going and U may lose it.
hurry! go and ask him. just now!
2006-09-04 16:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by M M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE LIKES YOU!!!!
don't ask him out
thats the boys hardwork! his job!
keep it tradish!
he will probs ask you out after you tell him you like him!
what else is stopping him!?
hope all goes well!
2006-09-04 16:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by flint eastwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah blah blah!!!!! just tell him like you told us!
2006-09-04 15:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋