my gf cant fit my penis in her hole. is there any way to stretch her out with out much pain being involve? i tried fingers, but then the hole just closes. what can i use?
2006-09-04 08:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by dudeman 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
dude here's the answer that you were lookin' for. Buy a smaller dildo , lube it up and practice with that first. the anus hole needs to be warmed up. and the more you practice with this it will become loose and more flexible.
2006-09-04 08:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by mokcasin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rectum is design to stretch. the problem is that she is tense and probably afraid. i understand that you are curious and want to experiment with anal sex. but, it sounds like your gf is not ready yet. help her become more familiar with it by getting her some literature on the subject. buy some KY jelly. start with small objects and work your way up to larger ones. but remember the most important part of the act is that she has to be relaxed and willing. if not nothing will help and you should not pressure her into it.
2006-09-04 15:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know cause i hate anal sex its an exit hole not an enter better yet for guys that like to give it have you ever had something up your *** if not try it then you tell me if I should like anal or not
2006-09-04 15:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of lubrication, u are talking about anal aren't u. U just need to take it slow and keep at it it gets better with time.
2006-09-04 15:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lube, lube, and more lube. Also, the first time is always the hardest. Its going to hurt, its going to feel weird. Just remember to go slowly and let her set the pace there afterwards.
2006-09-04 15:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep working on it. Sooner or later it will stretch out.
2006-09-04 15:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need lots of lubrication and patience.....dont push it...it will hurt and practice makes perfect...is your girlfriend in agreeance to all of this play?? If not...then dont push her....always wear a condom...and use lots of lube and move slowly, very slowly...
2006-09-04 15:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is your gf underage?
if not try buying a sex toy that widens the you know what
BTW dont force it to go on it will hurt her physically
2006-09-04 15:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by M.F.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do have a girlfriend...
do the finger during
then do lube with finger during
then do lube with it and go slow in and hold and go slow
i reccomend her on top, definitly not doggie
if you blow it with "her" she might change her mind
a fresh start with another girl, repeat instructions
2006-09-04 15:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Hymn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-04 15:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by gangadharan nair 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋