hey i got a friend who's been dumped by alot of girls out because the girl would get turned off because he is just to horny around her. i know it sounds normal for us guys, but ya the girls who dumped him tellin me that your friend is like "too horny" and all he talks about is like dirty things when its just me n him like that. U see my friend has the looks and everything, 6,1 lean fit and a good lookin guy. But ya looks aernt always the first with girls they need the respect. And i dont really know how help my friend with his "extra giddyness" he has hehe. Because thats the only reason why the girls are dumping him...... and believe me his relationships dont even it as an "official" girlfriend status.
anyone else who has a friend who has the same problem?
2006-09-04 08:13:56 · 30 answers · asked by royg3n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can say is....he is lucky to have a friend like you.
2006-09-04 08:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds dumb. It would seem that if he looks that great, and notices that he gets dumped by girls because he only talks to them about sex, that, maybe he should learn how to talk to these girls about something other than sex.
All he has to do is save the sexual talk at the end of the day when they are having sex.
The rest of the day should be romantic conversation or other intellectual or artistic forms of conversation to make the relationship more interesting. Sex is great, but constant sex would make the relationship boring.
2006-09-04 15:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it as a problem unless of course, he's having a hard time keeping a relationship going. He's obviously doesn't WANT a committed relationship or he'd think more of these women's feelings and try to be more into them, not what's in their pants. He's just playin' right now, so don't hate. He's doin' what he wants and is having a good time. He'll find someone he wants to settle down with eventually and will learn on his own "how to" in a relationship...
2006-09-04 15:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered telling him to stop? Just keeping the thoughts to himself? I have a friend who does that stuff, but he does it in a more joking fashion, and he gets girls. You might wanna see if he can do a mild manner of horniness, which might not bother a girl. But the best thing to do is stop it from happening again.
2006-09-04 15:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chop J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh- your friend needs a personality overhaul. Only he can make that change- not anyone else. If he realizes this problem then he can change it but it sounds like it's going to take a lot of doing. i.e. biting his tongue when he wants to say something stupid.
Have a great day!!!
2006-09-04 15:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your friend needs to grow up. It's ok to talk about sex a lot with other guys, but if wants to get a "real" girl, then obviously that is not going to work.
Second, you need to go back to school.
2006-09-04 15:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by mattinctown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell him to get to know her a little before he gets so dirty. And tell him that he might wanna make sure that she's ok with him talking like that before he goes and spits it out like that if thats his only problem and he takes it slower then he is now he'll have a girl in no time
2006-09-04 15:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chelso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend and tell him. Dont let him make a fool of himself and act like a pervert. You'd think he'd catch on and realize that he's not being appropriate. Tell him girls like gentlemen. Good luck with this one.
2006-09-04 15:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by missie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him keep gettting dumped until he learns not to be a horny idiot, it may take a long time but you can't help. If he has a noisy ***** that controlls his mind then just consider yourself lucky to be able to learn from his mistakes.
2006-09-04 15:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by BOISE_DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to be "extra giddy", but to talk about it all the time is really annoying.
Tell him to get a more challenging job or something to use up some energy.
2006-09-04 15:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to cool his jets. He's coming on too strong to the girls. Girls are not here to be used for sex. Tell your friend to get to know a girl and to not talk about sex to her constantly. She will appreciate it. I hope this helps.
2006-09-04 15:19:11 · answer #11 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋