i took $5 dollars out of my mom's purse to get my glasses fixed. I didn't ask her, so I could see why she was angry. Now she doesn't trust me and is threatening to kick me out. I said i was sorry. I feel terrible, but what should i do?
2006-09-04 07:44:04 · 15 answers · asked by moneymakerchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By accepting the consequences of your actions.
2006-09-04 07:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. Take the lesson: DON'T STEAL FROM THE COOKIE JAR!
Second, try WRITING an apology. That way you can carefully review what you say and make sure you tell her how you are truly sorry (I am assuming here...) and you understand why she is mad and that you have learned a lesson. etc. You won't have to worry about being nervous and not saying the right thing.
Taking the time to write something, 'the good old fashioned way' may also send a message of its own.
Also, you can leave the letter in her purse, or somewhere obvious (on the fridge) for her to find it. That way if she can read it alone, it will be easier for her to digest. She won't have to be looking at the face of the person she is trying to be angry at. She can just settle with the words. And she won't be able to cut you off or say, "STOP! I've heard enough!"
2006-09-04 14:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by kree8iv73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd show her I was sorry rather than just saying it. Talk is cheap but replacing the $5 costs five dollars. I would replace it and in addition, I would buy her a little gift with money I earned proving I love her.
2006-09-08 14:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to gain her trust back by showing her a little more respect. Stealing is one of the roots of evil. If you lie you'll cheat and steal. So she's not only thinking about the stealing, she's also thinking about the lying and the cheating that comes along with it.
2006-09-04 14:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom is overreacting, unless you've done stuff like this before and this was just the last straw. Talk to her again and explain to her that you didn't mean anything bad by it. And give her a reason why you didn't ask before taking the money if you have one.
2006-09-04 14:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stealing is wrong! Try and pay her back the money and never ever steal from her or anyone else again--that is totally wrong! You should always ask before taking. Talk to your mom and be honest with her !
2006-09-04 14:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by southerncharmer73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her later? If you did she is seriuosly over reacting, but then some parents go in to the what if they take something else, what if your stealing all over the place! Some parents to like to over react way to much!
2006-09-04 14:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by hotphychochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. You need to find a way to prove to her that you are trustworthy. She's upset because technically, you did steal. Sit down and talk to her about it. Accept responsibility (I know you are, but tell your mom) and explain yourself.
2006-09-04 14:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her that you took the money for a good reason and maybe she wont kick you out
good luck
2006-09-04 14:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Allie18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say mom i really need to talk to you say mom i know i did a very bad thing but i will never do it to anyone ever again say you dont have to trust me anymore but dont hate me say i know you dont love me anymore but please ill prove to you that ill never do it again it should work make sure you say the love part good luck e-mail me if it works
2006-09-04 14:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋