I have known my boyfriend of almost 2 months for about 8 mos & we've been dating technically since we met, but officially since about 2 months ago. We live in the same apartment complex & spend EVERY night together. Hes great to me & we spend most of our free time together & I am sure that I do love him. I'm not one for saying I LOVE YOU bc I realize the words don't mean love... love means love. However, I find it so difficult to NOT tell him. I have to take such extreme caution to NOT say I love you and I think about [expressing] it all the time. He hasn't said it, but he shows me (as I feel he loves me) but without the words, as do I. I am struggling internally as I am dying to express my feelings for him bc they are festering in me & it's so difficult to NOT slip & say it. I do little things to show I love him, but I want to tell him in words bc I realize actions are not always read as we mean them to be. I am SO SCARED of how he might react. Will he say it back? Will it scare him?
2006-09-04 07:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by anonymouswoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think by the way you all are spending time together and expressing each others feeling and have know eacher for a while now. I think you should tell him, plus i dont think you will scare him away..i think it would probably bring you all closer. Maybe he is waiting for you to say it that way he feels more comfortable when he says it...GOODLUCK!
2006-09-04 07:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be too just tell him and if he doesnt like it hes not the right one for you
2006-09-04 14:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by lostmyaccont8x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ...I dont know tell him ..take a chance and if he dosent like it then he anit the rite one for you!
2006-09-04 14:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by TriNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it!
2006-09-04 14:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by kong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!:)
2006-09-04 14:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by flint eastwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋