not physicaly, but in every other aspect.
2006-09-04 07:32:39 · 23 answers · asked by AuroraBorealis 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I realized that I can't just go out and buy a new pair of shoes I want, because chances are that money could be better spent on my kids. So instead of my getting those really cute strappy sandals, my kids get new pairs of sneakers.
I've learned that no matter how much you tell your kids that you love them, it will never even come close to how much you really do love them. Words can't express that kind of love.
I've learned that some of the grossest things can come from your kids and you won't even bat an eyelash when you're cleaning them up and taking care of them.
I've learned that my patience level increased 10 fold after having kids.
I've learned that buying kids clothes is like buying a new computer. As soon as you walk out of the store with it, it's obsolete and needs to be upgraded, in other words, kids grow like weeds and you'll be buying bigger clothes at an alarming rate.
I've learned that I'm not as selfish as I thought I was. Every extra dime I have I spend on my kids.
I've learned that if we sometimes looked at the world in the point of view of a child, we might not be so nasty toward each other. My youngest son differentiated people by their hair color. The black kid over there, had black hair. The red kid over by the slide had red hair. The yellow girl on the swings, had blonde hair. He never saw skin color and I never discouraged that.
I've learned that I can use silly nonsensical words in public and not be bothered by it in the least bit. My kids and I know what a dino-horsey and a momo-cycle is and that's all that matters.
I've learned that above all, my children have been my greatest teachers in life. I wouldn't be the person I am today without my kids. If more people could understand that, I KNOW the world would be a better place.
2006-09-04 07:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Mother hood has changed me so much, I no longer go out and party nor do I drown out my issues with alcohol! I stopped smoking (I smoked for about a year! I've since lost some of my confidence in my figure as well as my sex drive. However, I have become a lot more responsible in my life and have even developed a career. I find fulfillment in domestic hobbies such as cooking, decorating, reading, and hosting dinners!
2006-09-04 07:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have learned patience, and the true meaning of unconditional love. I have become stronger and more vocal about issues. I have learned the true value of a dollar and how to be a safer person.(driving) I also have learned that kids games are recyclable, just don't let them know it. And that the same jokes are still out there. What's black and white and red all over? A newspaper. I have also learned true joy and the power of a childs laugh. And I have learned more about colds and flus then I ever thought possible. Oh and where the emergency rooms are,.... 2 boys. ;o)
2006-09-04 07:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by gymfreak 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am much more careful than I used to be and more of a worrier. I am terrified that something might happen to me and that my kids would be left alone. This is significant because I used to be a big risk taker, ie: rock climber, remote hiker, traveler ect. I think twice about stuff like that now. I am also much more responsible and try to keep to a schedule - which I never did before.
2006-09-04 07:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by omchanti 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well before I got pregnant I didn't care where I was or what I was doing... I didn't care how much danger I was in and as soon as I got pregnant everything changed. I started careing about everything. What time I got home cleaning none stop no drinking no drugs... My son is now two and he is the happiest little boy in the world and I am glad I was able to change for him and his soon to be brother or sister
2006-09-04 07:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kacy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It helped me grow up. Made me realize that my life was important but my babies was more so. I took more time and care in the things I did and said. I have more patience, lots of love, and a better understanding of what goes on in life.
I'm more aware of TV shows that are inappropriate, music, books, things like that.
I now have 5 kids and am very protective of them. They are my life.
2006-09-04 08:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Made me very happy for many years while I raised them and gave them the best of everything..............sad now that I lost my marriage partly because I always sided with my kids against my husband, defended my kids against my husband and fought my husband for the kids to make sure that their life was the perfect life and not like my abusive childhood and am now left with no husband, and ungrateful kids who live in another state.
2006-09-04 07:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My children are adopted, so no physical changes thankfully. Being a mom has made me patient and tolerant. Also made me realize that I can waste time scrubbing my house like I always did, or I can let a little clutter go unnoticed, and spend time with my girls and their daddy. Has made me appreciate the passage of time.
2006-09-04 07:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Didn't change me a bit since I have decided not to have kids. After my dysfunctional up bringing and continuing abuse. I decided to stop the cycle and not to punish and innocent child by bringing them into such a world as this.
2006-09-04 07:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've never been so proud or protective, worried or so patient. I'm also much more confident in myself and my abilities. I wouldn't change it for the world.
2006-09-04 07:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋