I really like this guy for like the whole summer holidays, and now fiannly going out, i am so happy for, but when it comes us two alone on talking point it gets awkard, as well on the phone but not on msn, why is this so? how can i get over this stage of the relationship?
2006-09-04 07:21:51 · 8 answers · asked by flint eastwood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you can, but you have to want to. You need to be in person to get over it. If you do something over and over again you start to get use to it. Just spend time with him and it will get better. If you two do not have things to talk about go out and do things. You can go to a movie and you do not have to make conversation but you are still together.
2006-09-04 07:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like there is any lust here at all!!! You just need to get over this akward stage of getting to know each other. Just spend some time together, go for a walk, go to the park, going to a movie you spend time together, but there is no time to talk and get to know each other except before the movie and after. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-04 14:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a young lady. Your generation was brought up during the internet era. Your problem communication face to face with him and wonderfully on MSN is because face to face is out of you box. It is not comfortable for you there because it is strange to you. Practice makes perfect.
2006-09-04 14:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by L C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times we tend to want to rush a new relationship. Especially if we feel we really like the other person. We become anxious and want to steer its course. MY advice is to take your time. Remember this...irregardless of of your feelings, you hardly really know this person. You have no idea of his true intentions, his character, or what kind of person he really is.
So take it slow. Get to know him and don't be so quick to release your feelings. Try and focus on the big picture rather than this bf gf stuff.
Really concentrate on your studies so that you can become self sufficient and smart in your adult life. Don't start now and don't get in the habit of letting boys be your main focus in life. Set goals for yourself and set your own standards.
2006-09-04 14:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its easrier for him to get along on MSN because maybe he is shy on telling you the way he feels in person...I suggest dont rush into trying to make him feel comfortable in person just respect his feelings and he will come out when he is ready.
2006-09-04 14:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward- that just passes over time. Maybe you guys get nervous! I wouldn't call that lust!
2006-09-04 14:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U'll get over it just like i did trust me, just talk to him like u r talking to ur friends.
2006-09-04 14:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Renée 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with lust, there is no talking required. you both know what you want, you just do it.
2006-09-04 14:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋