Now a days it is sooo hard to find the right man....Is it wrong to?

Question

feel if you own a house then i feel they would need to have one...If you only have one adult child, then i would be able to take on one...now you know why it is hard!!! What's your take on that???mean i do not want the responsibility of 3 kids that are not MINE>>>hello!!

Answer 1

If you loved the guy enough, you'd accept his children. Maybe you are just too picky!

Answer 2

When you say, it's hard to FIND the right man...
Maybe you need to wait. A man that findeth a wife...not a woman that findeth a man. Don't settle for what you know you don't want.
You could have something bigger and better waiting on you but you are too preoccupied with settling for 2nd best. Don't force a square into a circle, it will never fit unless you cut the sides. If you hold out, what you deserve will come to you! This is fact. You may not want to wait, but you will never know unless you do. Find yourself-when a man sees that you know what you want he will meet your expectation. Someone who can catch you--oneness with your spirit. Put away the confusion and mind boggling baggage and hold out for yours. It's not your responsibility. We are held accountable for the choices we make, his choices have nothing to do with what you have. You will regret it later if you are not at peace with it now. Take your time, don't rush, IT IS YOUR LIFE ya know.

Answer 3

Maybe you really don't love him because if you did you would accept him the way he is and his family. If you don't want a guy with family then look for one that doesn't. Maybe you are just to picky and if you are going that route you might never find the right one.

Answer 4

if you love someone enough you will accept whatever they have being a house or no house kids or no kids look at it with a open mind, or just be alone for the rest of your live your choice