look, i've been working hard lately.. this weekend,my co-worker throw a party at her house... i met her friends...guys & gurls... my bf knew about it & he gets mad.. he told me that no decent gurl will go out & get drunk with guys (i didnt get drunk).. he said i cheated on him... i didn't even explain my side, i just let him think wat he wants... coz im getting tired of him accusing me things... he broke up with me, but he still keeps on calling me & i never answer his call... wer in a long distance relationship...we've been together for 4 yrs.... should i juz let this happen? is it my fault? i swear, i didn't do anything bad...
2006-09-04 07:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by samz_eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't do anything wrong, hes just worried and isn't there to make sure nothing happens. If this is a reoccurring thing perhaps its time you should move on.
2006-09-04 07:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a long distance relationship and don't see each other a lot it is hard. He is jealous and believe it or not guys are more jealous then girls are. He broke up with you to prove a point, and because he is still calling that means he cares. It is not your fault or his. You two need to talk and set boundaries for your relationship. That does not mean you can not go and do what you did but if you talked about it before he really can not get upset.
2006-09-04 14:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong at all but u must pick his call and settle the matter. both of you sith down and settle the matter so that no has to explain oneself again in life. dont let love go off so easily over a small thing. just talk to him dear.
2006-09-04 14:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by JOHNNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are NEVER a good idea. (I spent a year stationed in Korea and I had a hard time keeping my *MARRIAGE* alive while we were apart.) Find someone closer to you.
2006-09-04 14:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just insecure....its not really your fault, its only yours if you actually cheat. Long distance relationships get really messy.
2006-09-04 14:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Krusd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not trust you than you don't need him around...best you stay 'broken up' and find a good guy close by....
2006-09-04 14:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it aint bad let him go baby it will be better for you. hes a loser for getting mad at you for that
2006-09-04 14:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by mule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋