A couple of days ago I kissed my friend's cousin but it really meant nothing to me the day after he got my mob no and started sending me msg asking how am I and lots of unuseless stuff, then yesterday I was introduced to his mother since she's my friend's aunt(she never saw me and knew me before) then she started asking me questions suddenly she asked me if I knew a girl whome her son dated, and this girl was me he also added to his mother that we started dating and we've been going out together lately and stuff like that! I was totally embarrased since all the things he said were all a lie !! Why is he inventing things like this ?!!!
2006-09-04 07:10:39 · 16 answers · asked by Amelie' 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's got so many girls wanting him badly since he's good looking! and he knew it wasn't serious that kiss since after I told him that it was just a mistake and should have never been done!
2006-09-04 07:23:07 · update #1
HE'S DESPERATE.
2006-09-04 07:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by kermit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very insecure and immature and obviously thought that the kiss meant a whole lot more than it really did.
I would explain to his mom that it is a total misunderstanding and that you are not dating. Then I would talk to him and explain that you really are not interested in having a relationship like that with him - GENTLY! Above all, don't give him any reason to think there is anything for hime to hang onto, to hope for - i.e. a little farewell peck on the cheek.
Then nicely tell him that you would prefer that he left you alone. If he does not, then go to an adult - his mom, your mom, someone and tell them that you are feeling harassed and want it to stop NOW and that you have told him to stop and he will not. If they don't take you seriously, then go to someone like a teacher that you trust or the school counselor.
2006-09-04 14:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's telling her mom those lies because his dream is dating you. Maybe for you, the kiss was nothing, but for him it meant a whole lot different. You should only kiss when you mean it, not to spend a moment.
Anyway, maybe he's so exited he exagerated. Tell him that you're sorry that you kissed him, but that you don't want to date him.
2006-09-04 14:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he likes you and wishes those things were true. that's the only reason I can think of but why don't you ask him to be sure....
2006-09-04 14:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not lie but it sounds like he must impress his mom or is afraid of her.
2006-09-04 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one kiss and your married! whew this guy must be really hard up, and more then likely will smother you..distance yourself from him as much as possible before he gets hurt bad....
2006-09-04 14:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes u
2006-09-04 14:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by jasin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to sit down and talk to him. maybe he doesnt think he is lying. maybe the kiss meant more to him tthen it did to u, sit him down and explain
2006-09-04 14:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he took it differently than you did. Set him straight.
2006-09-04 14:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got that Y chromosome.
2006-09-04 14:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, why dont u just ask him? and then tell his mother the truth.
2006-09-04 14:13:18 · answer #11 · answered by Bored silly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋